Jen & Her Men
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I bumped into my ex bf the other day, we were together for about 5 years from when I was 17 and lived together etc.
Havent seen him for years and obviously I was heavily pregnant when I saw him. We chatted for ages and he was asking me how I was doing. I was telling him about getting married, new house - we have just moved back to the area i was brought up in and he works round there managing the Home and Bargain store. We got on well but he was clearly a bit jealous about how well I had done and what I had achieved - which was always the case anyway and one of the reasons we split up.
Anyway, my auntie is always bumping into his mum and his sister and she saw his mum the other day who commented to her about how my ex had said "my God mum you should see the size of her!!"
I mean, I know Im pregnant but i thought that was really mean and I have no idea why my mum decided I needed to know that either! (My auntie told my mum who told me)
It really upset me, especially cos I bumped into his sister yesterday in B&Q and now I can just imagine them all bitching about how huge I am and how he had a lucky escape cos hes not going out with such a big fat beast!
I feel self conscious as it is at the mo - I dont understand why people feel its ok to make such personal comments when your preggers!! It really p*sses me off!!
Havent seen him for years and obviously I was heavily pregnant when I saw him. We chatted for ages and he was asking me how I was doing. I was telling him about getting married, new house - we have just moved back to the area i was brought up in and he works round there managing the Home and Bargain store. We got on well but he was clearly a bit jealous about how well I had done and what I had achieved - which was always the case anyway and one of the reasons we split up.
Anyway, my auntie is always bumping into his mum and his sister and she saw his mum the other day who commented to her about how my ex had said "my God mum you should see the size of her!!"
I mean, I know Im pregnant but i thought that was really mean and I have no idea why my mum decided I needed to know that either! (My auntie told my mum who told me)
It really upset me, especially cos I bumped into his sister yesterday in B&Q and now I can just imagine them all bitching about how huge I am and how he had a lucky escape cos hes not going out with such a big fat beast!
I feel self conscious as it is at the mo - I dont understand why people feel its ok to make such personal comments when your preggers!! It really p*sses me off!!
Women who are 9 months pregnant do tend to look bigger than normal. 
Makes me want to scream sometimes!!!! Before I used to get the 'Oh my god you're far too skinny' now Im far too bloody big 
