Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
My OH's ex gf, ex gfs mum and my MIL are really starting to p*ss me off.
OH has a son from his ex, who we have every other weekend, his name is Jay, hes 3 and cant be anymore excited about being a big brother and its lovely. He always talks to her and pats her and screams wake up at my tummy cause he wants to feel her haha.
ANYWAY
The ex, who is a complete cow, is forever giving my OH hell "bet u love it dont you, Jay being excited" (said as sarcastically as possible) shes forever telling Jay that when Megan comes along he'll be pushed aside and she will keep him awake at night crying, hes told her a few times that his sister will love him - which i think is both cute and funny. Anyway this I can handle cause shes just jealous and enjoys making everyones life difficult - including her own.
Anyway OH drops Jay back to her mums on Sunday where she was interrogating him about the new baby. When he said it was a girl she go's "Oh bet your happy about that then" My oh was like yeah im really excited. TO which she turnt round and go's, SHE (said really horribly like she was talking about a nasty woman not a child who isnt even here yet) WILL NEVER replace Jay. Aaron turnt around and said, of corse she wont, no one will. He was right to say that because no child will ever replace another but at the same time i was thinking in my head and Jay will never replace megan... how pathetic, this grown woman, being spiteful.
So yeah that i expect ex's mother and all that....
ANYWAY
THEN
I find a txt on OH's phone this morning when I was looking for an order number for our sky, from HIS MOTHER, saying, "You may have a new gal and new baby on the way but they do not replace Kyla (his ex) and Jay, you need to make more effort to see them, specially Jay" Im so angry over this!! They have an arrangement that Aaron has Jay every other weekend. He works the weekends he doesnt see him. We dont get any help from the council so he has to work to keep our roof over our heads. He tries to see him as much as possible and Jay loves his weekends with us. Ive met his mum once, although shes always making comments on my facebook. She told me that my daughter looked like Jay already (from the 4d scan - like u can tell) that upset me cause OH's son is his ex's double. She also told me she thought I was gooing to have a massive baby, shes not seen me since I was 18 weeks pregnant lol. Now everyone that sees me says "oh my god your tiny". So for her to say that makes me laugh.
AND
The thing that really bugs me is shes always like "hows my grand daughter" Ohhhh I see shes your grand daughter when it suits you??? But me and her "dont replace his ex and Jay".
Its so pathetic but its making me wanna say you know what, your not her grand mother and your not seeing her, you concerntrate on the grand children that came "first".
OH's dad and step mum have offered to buy us the pram and wouldnt dream of playing these stupid games.
Why is everyone trying to take the most special time of my life away from me!?
Woah sorry ive really ranted but its made me feel better!! I wont spk to OH about this cause I know he'll just get upset/annoyed cause hes always stuck in the middle - its not fair.
xxx
My OH's ex gf, ex gfs mum and my MIL are really starting to p*ss me off.
OH has a son from his ex, who we have every other weekend, his name is Jay, hes 3 and cant be anymore excited about being a big brother and its lovely. He always talks to her and pats her and screams wake up at my tummy cause he wants to feel her haha.
ANYWAY
The ex, who is a complete cow, is forever giving my OH hell "bet u love it dont you, Jay being excited" (said as sarcastically as possible) shes forever telling Jay that when Megan comes along he'll be pushed aside and she will keep him awake at night crying, hes told her a few times that his sister will love him - which i think is both cute and funny. Anyway this I can handle cause shes just jealous and enjoys making everyones life difficult - including her own.
Anyway OH drops Jay back to her mums on Sunday where she was interrogating him about the new baby. When he said it was a girl she go's "Oh bet your happy about that then" My oh was like yeah im really excited. TO which she turnt round and go's, SHE (said really horribly like she was talking about a nasty woman not a child who isnt even here yet) WILL NEVER replace Jay. Aaron turnt around and said, of corse she wont, no one will. He was right to say that because no child will ever replace another but at the same time i was thinking in my head and Jay will never replace megan... how pathetic, this grown woman, being spiteful.
So yeah that i expect ex's mother and all that....
ANYWAY
THEN
I find a txt on OH's phone this morning when I was looking for an order number for our sky, from HIS MOTHER, saying, "You may have a new gal and new baby on the way but they do not replace Kyla (his ex) and Jay, you need to make more effort to see them, specially Jay" Im so angry over this!! They have an arrangement that Aaron has Jay every other weekend. He works the weekends he doesnt see him. We dont get any help from the council so he has to work to keep our roof over our heads. He tries to see him as much as possible and Jay loves his weekends with us. Ive met his mum once, although shes always making comments on my facebook. She told me that my daughter looked like Jay already (from the 4d scan - like u can tell) that upset me cause OH's son is his ex's double. She also told me she thought I was gooing to have a massive baby, shes not seen me since I was 18 weeks pregnant lol. Now everyone that sees me says "oh my god your tiny". So for her to say that makes me laugh.
AND
The thing that really bugs me is shes always like "hows my grand daughter" Ohhhh I see shes your grand daughter when it suits you??? But me and her "dont replace his ex and Jay".
Its so pathetic but its making me wanna say you know what, your not her grand mother and your not seeing her, you concerntrate on the grand children that came "first".
OH's dad and step mum have offered to buy us the pram and wouldnt dream of playing these stupid games.
Why is everyone trying to take the most special time of my life away from me!?
Woah sorry ive really ranted but its made me feel better!! I wont spk to OH about this cause I know he'll just get upset/annoyed cause hes always stuck in the middle - its not fair.
xxx
