Yeah I did a google search on the name she uses on various accounts and this thread appeared, only wish I had done this back then but thats trust for you, we both have used the same passwords for most things, when I showed her this post she said she couldnt even remember writing it. I had asked if she spoke to the first individual when she found out she was pregnant and she said no, but she had put it on her post again she couldnt remember. I have spoken briefly to him and got very little in the way of remorse as he knew us as a couple, but I guess DNA and CSA is a new form of teaching some individuals respect to others and casual conquests are not all good.