Lilith, just to say I'm in the same situation as you (I saw somewhere that you are missing seeing your oh on your next ovulation). My b****y period is starting today, if it had just started two or three days later I would have arrived back in China in perfect time for ovulation which meant on that trip to China I would have had two cycles so two chances. But because it's starting today I'm going to miss ovulation which means I only get one chance between now and the end of January. I'm so upset. I already feel like my body let me down once with the blighted ovum, now it couldn't even wait two bloody days to start my period. It's not even 4 weeks since I passed the sac.