When do you plan on having another?

[LoopyLouize]

Is it just me who;

Loved every minute of being pregnant?

Is so envious of pregnant women?

Already planning on a second, third etc?

I feel like I must be crazy but I seriously would love to be pregnant again like.. now lol! So far I have put of going on any contraception and have been DTD as you do but not being entirely careful but careful ish . Just been avoiding the days that I predict ovulation will be occurring.

Financially we are able to afford another.. I just don't know if we could physically and mentally cope.

OH keeps bringing it up about having another too which has me thinking he feels the same.. but then he also keeps bringing up marriage which makes me also think he may prefer a wedding and then try again afterwards.

Pointless post really. Just fancied rambling on lol x

 

[Lilelephant]

I know what u mean Hun
I hated being pregnant cos of the spd and my birth was horrendous but I really would do it again!
I had a mc 2 weeks ago and that really made me think I want another but we can't afford one right now so we r gonna wait til O is two

 

[JJ Mum]

ahhh , I wanted another 3 days after having my second son, I sat on the sofa and cried my eyes out all afternoon.. (hormones can't of helped !!). I TTC for 3 mths and good job it took that long as 13 months age gap is hard work, but lovely.... there like twins sometimes...

The biggest jump is none to one, not one to two.........

 

[ZMD]

Ive wanted another since tegan was a few months old but were waiting another year yet so she'll be over 3 before theres another baby but thats down to wanting to do things before having another.
I didn't particularly enjoy being pregnant but I'm mad and loved giving birth! x

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[LoopyLouize]

OMG Laura I am shocked! I am so sorry! I had no idea! Just went to find your thread about it now. I don't often go in the Girlies Room so I totally missed it! I hope your ok now!

Thanks JJ, thats what I wanted it to be like too. Have them at a close age gap. I was ever close to my siblings as the age gap I felt was to big. 9 years to be precise! Now she is just an annoying spotty teenager who thinks the world is against her lol.

x

 

[Rachaellius]

I'm going to wait until Phoebe is 2 or 3 until I TTC again. I don't think I could cope with 2 babies lol x

 

[LoopyLouize]

ZMD - I also loved the experience of giving birth.. Although at the time, with the pain and discomfort I actually remember asking them to chop my legs of as they were annoying me.. Hmmm.. Contractions suck but its true what they say.. All is forgotten once LO is in your arms! x

 

[AugustMum]

I have spent the past year being crazy broody and if it was up to me I'd have another now! But, I want a career change into nursing and so I'm starting that this year so it will be AT LEAST another 4 years before I consider it. So in reality, my LO is almost 2 now. I'd like another by the time she's 8. I will only just be turning 30 then though so I don't feel the need to rush into anything

 

[Rachaellius]

I loved pregnancy and labour too. But then I didnt have a bad labour, it was only 6 hours. Hopefully I'll be as lucky second time round!

 

[LoopyLouize]

Augustmum you sound like you have it all worked out. You have plenty of time like you say. I am only 23 so I know I have plenty of time but thats me.. I am impatient and once I get an idea into my head I want to pursue it!

Think I need to snap out of it haha x

 

[LoopyLouize]

Aww bless Rachael, I was similar too. Good labour, nice and easy. Only pushed for 15 minutes and even got to see her head coming out as my bump was so small. I didn't get a single stretch mark, lost my baby weight within 2 weeks.. Next time I just know I will have everything go wrong and the stretch marks looking like the world atlas on my tummy! x

 

[winnie89]

i'm already planning my next hubby said he doesnt want another yet but i'm quite happy to wait until harry is able to appreciate it more, i'm hoping this time i'l deal with pregnancy better and have a natural birth this time around because i feel like i missed out i'll deffo bf again though

 

[l_maclean]

I'm like you ish, I got mini pill -eventually, even then it took me a week to start it - yesterday to be precise.
Only reason I have is cos I'm inline for a permanent position at work, and my manager is doing everything possible to ensure it suits my mat dates, so I'd feel really guilty if I got pg again now. Prob come back off it when G's about a year ish. Xxx

 

[AugustMum]

Oh if I didn't want this career so much then I'd be having another in a snap, don't get me wrong lol. I'd really like to have another one while I'm still fairly young tbh. But realistically I know it will work out better waiting

 

[pinkyprincess]

I really want to be pregnant again (not so sure about having 2 this close together in age tho!) my OH has said 2 max so part of me is sad I'll only get to do it one more time. I've already decided I'm having another section and I'm really looking forward to it! This time I won't be as fucked and pumped full so will ask more questions and I want to see my placenta if they let me etc! I'm fascinated by sections on the telly!

 

[LoopyLouize]

Pinky, I seen my placenta and nearly puked! I didn't have a clue what it was at first and had to ask wtf is that lol x

 

[TORino]

Brave lady!!

I can't imagine being pregnant with another baby to look after. I would find it really tough. Towards the end I spent my mat leave sleeping and I wouldn't be able to do that with a LO.

I don't know how long we will wait before another but I'd imagine it would be when the childcare costs for one stop.

 

[LoopyLouize]

Ahh yeah.. the dreaded childcare costs! Its a shame as I think people these days would love to have more kids but cannot afford childcare! x

 

[hugsy]

When Tescos start selling them.......

I hated every bit of pregnanct, I was was so sick for most of it, spd, carpal tunnel, unable to take medication for my costocondritis so agony wit that

And a horrible birth

i would love another 2 maybe 3 but just dont want to go trough all that agan

 

[LoopyLouize]

My friend had a baby girl and then within 6 weeks of having her she was pregnant again.. she then had a boy.. The way the birthdays fall.. They are going to be in the same year at school! How cute is that lol x