I met my hubby at work
Started dating after a couple month
Officially started going out November 15th 2009
He was too nervous to pick a ring by himself
He said he would ask me with a dummy one and then we would go buy one together
I said whatever ring I'm proposed with is the one I'm sticking with
So we shopped for one together
Couldn't find what I liked so had it custom made
A platinum ring with crossing shoulders. A diamond set in the middle and small crystals in the cross overs
I put a bit of weight on meaning the ring no longer fitted
Until it did I couldn't be proposed to!
So in October 2012 I gave in on losing weight and had it resized
When checking it fit okay in the jewellers I just never took it off again. Lol!
So I wasnt officially proposed to!
My dads health had been deteriorating over the year
I had to decide what was more important
Having him there
Or having a big wedding
Having him give me away was a big deal to me
So I booked Greenock registry office for exactly 4 weeks time
We got married on our 3 year anniversary - 15th November 2012
We had about 15 people there
Proper dress and kilt, flowers, cake etc. After the wedding we went to a hotel by the esplanade in Gourock for a 3 course meal
it was magical having him there
His health declined afterwards and he passed away in March of this year
Had we waited any longer he would have been too weak or not here at all
Tomorrow is our 1 year wedding anniversary
We are going out for a nice meal
The traditional gift is paper. I wonder what hes getting me!
Here they are
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People spend a lot on their wedding and its only a day
We spent a lot on our rings because we expect them to last forever