TTW Torture!!!

[Jadecerise]

Thank you Hun, it's baby number 3, my first two pregnancys happened so quickly, since then I've been diagnosed with pcos and number 3 felt like it was never going to happen! Hopefully the next cycle with be yours Hun! Would of been great if we all got our BFP together! Will defo keep on this site tho so will be on the look for your BFP xxx

 

[Mrshopeful]

Ah Jade delighted for you , u must be buzzing ? How many dpo r you ?

 

[Jadecerise]

Thank you, I'm 11dpo today xx

 

[Jadecerise]

One really odd symptom I had is popping of the ear, my left ear feels like it's full of water

 

[determined79]

Well here I am 7 or 8 DPO and I'm dying to test but worried Im tempting fate doing it too early.
Not sure on symptoms, tender(ish) boobs, collicky stomach - feels like period pain / ache despite being 7 days away from AF, Very dry - No CM. May also be getting a touch of Thrush

 

[Keelygracey]

Hi Determined, have you tested? FX'd for you!

I've told myself I'm not going to symptom spot at all this cycle.. only CD5 at the moment but looking forward to the 2WW.. waiting for ovulation is worse I think!

Not temping this cycle, just going to use opk's until a positive, dtd ALOT and then push it to the back of my mind & take a break from all things TTC... that's my plan anyway!!!!

x

 

[determined79]

Hi Determined, have you tested? FX'd for you!

I've told myself I'm not going to symptom spot at all this cycle.. only CD5 at the moment but looking forward to the 2WW.. waiting for ovulation is worse I think!

Not temping this cycle, just going to use opk's until a positive, dtd ALOT and then push it to the back of my mind & take a break from all things TTC... that's my plan anyway!!!!

x

Hi Keeleygrace
Thankyou so much - FX'd for you this coming cycle too!

And No , still not tested yet, I think I'm too scared too in case its a negative again. I dont know if Im talking myself into having symptoms because I want it so much. I dtd the evening prior to and the afternoon of my first surge (as per opk) and then every day or other day for the next few days so I'm hoping. OV was wierd this time round, i got a major stabbing pain in my left side which woke me up and I was at a festival that day and I felt so sick I could have keeled over and vomited. Lots of bloating too.

 

[Keelygracey]

Sounds promising! It's really hard not to get your hopes up especially when you feel you've done everything you could! Symptom spotting is so baddd but we all do it! I have so many symptoms last month but a BFN so this cycle I won't be classing anything as a symptom unless I see that BFP!! lol

Is this your first? How long have you been TTC? xxx

 

[determined79]

I got married for the first time in December and I fell pregnant for the first time during my wedding week but I lost it. Ive been all over the place emotionally and am only now ready to start TTC again. I stopped my Dianette pill mid April and its only the last two cycles I have tried. Its only this last one (July 20th Period) that I have used an OPK. I'd never really wanted kids before I met my husband and being pregnant the first time changed everything completely. But now I'm worried that I've left it too late and I may be too old. My husband is 46 and has two 20 year old girls with an ex so I feel even more inadequate sometimes. I'm hoping by using the OPK and doing what is suggested it may happen for me. How about you? Any kids already or will this be your first?

 

[Keelygracey]

I'm so sorry for your loss, that really must have been a roller coaster of emotions! I don't think it's ever too late, not if you really want something! dont put yourself down, it will happen, one way or another it will happen! Just don't stress over it because stress will only make it harder! Keep using the OPK's, and if your still unsuccessful trying temping, temping will confirm whether your definitely ovulating

I'm TTC my first! On my third cycle now, pretty sure I had an early MC on my first cycle. I have a relatively short LP of 10 days which I don't think helps!

Me and my partner have been together for 10 years, we met when we were 17 so i guess it's been a long time coming.. people always say why haven't you had kids yet? And I'm thinking IM TRYING!! lol (no one knows we're TTC)

xxx

 

[determined79]

Aww thankyou, it was hard at first but m in a better place now. I'm trying to be laid back but when you want it you want it now don't you? ��
I' thought my last cycle I may have been lucky, I was two days later than usual, spotting on those days, then bone really heavy day then a couple of lighter days. Usually I am regular- heavy from the Monday until Thursday . But I guess as I had that heavy day it wasn't. BFP!

I'm still new and confused with all this terminology too!

I think it's best not to tell anyone your trying- it would only be more pressure and disappointment if it is BFN so 10DPO now and so tempted to test! Xx

 

[Keelygracey]

I'm impatient too, I feel so bad moaning about not being pregnant and only been TTC for 2months when there's ladies that have been trying for so long!

I would have tested by now! the waiting stresses me out so much! xx

 

[nikkix86]

I'm on cd7 again hate starting a new cycle. started using opks today as well now I'm on cycle 5

 

[determined79]

I'm impatient too, I feel so bad moaning about not being pregnant and only been TTC for 2months when there's ladies that have been trying for so long!

I would have tested by now! the waiting stresses me out so much! xx

I am dying to do it....I woke up this AM and I have sharp pains in my central tummy area and I also have a tweak in my left side. Dont want to do it too early as all the info says too early could be negative and I don't want to face the disappointment yet.

Makes you wonder if these signs were ever ere when TTC wasn't on the agenda doesn't it...? Like did this happen and we were just not paying attention.

 

[Keelygracey]

To be honest most of it yes! We all think we have symptoms then get BFN's so just goes to show they're normal feelings that happen most months lol I'm not reading into any symptoms this cycle! xx

 

[nikkix86]

5th cycle for me and fed up already. always fallen so quickly with my other children

 

[kumber]

We've been waiting to try since January, I did a hpt back then and was convinced I saw a positive but it was my stupid hormones. I was having to test twice a month in case we caught on my first cycle without realising. It was crushing seeing all those bfns. Even if we don't catch for a couple of months, I'm so relieved I can have periods so we can hopefully get pregnant

 

[Keelygracey]

That's how I feel, I'm just greatful that my cycles are fairly 'normal' apart from having a 10 day LP at the moment! I'm only having positive thoughts.. It will happen!

 

[determined79]

So...decided to test today 10 or 11 DPO and BFN �� Is it too soon? Should I try again or take it that this cycle is another disappointment ?

 

[Keelygracey]

A lot of people do see two lines at 10Dpo but some not until well passed AF was due so your not out until AF arrives! FX'd you x