Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[stacesl3]

Thanks ladies Yes a natural one, shocked really as I've not had a period since June after being really regular for months. Weird. Really hoping this is a sticky and that you guys will all come with me as this boat sucks big time. Going to my gp next week as I'm pretty sure my mc last year was due to low progesterone, not telling the fertility clinic yet in case I still need them (plus my gp is nicer).

Only just seen this!!! Massive congratulations Snowbee absolutely chuffed for you. I do love to see a lttc BFP here's to a healthy and happy 9 months!! xx

 

[phonixgirl]

Ooo Snowbee!!! Massive congrats. I am so soo pleased for you xx

 

[snowbee]

Sorry to say I'm back Thought that we were in with a chance this time but it appears not. Desperately hoping we will get a sticky bfp soon, this sucks.

 

[phonixgirl]

Oh nooo, I am so sorry. Massive massive hugs xxxx

 

[Unicorn]

Oh no, I'm soo sorry Snowbee, you nearly escaped! Next time you'll be out of this shit boat for sure xx

 

[Unicorn]

How are you doing Phonixgirl, you seem to have been quiet lately? Any news on your IVF? We're looking into going for it in the new year xx

 

[phonixgirl]

Hi Unicorn. I was on holiday (for a whole three weeks) where I had limited wifi.

I had my IVF refresh meeting yesterday and it was great. We were going to have the long protocol but she looked and saw I had PCOS so now it'll be the short one. Started metformin too. Will have IVF cycle after next which I am feeling optimistic about now. Xxx

 

[kittykitchn]

Hi Unicorn. I was on holiday (for a whole three weeks) where I had limited wifi.

I had my IVF refresh meeting yesterday and it was great. We were going to have the long protocol but she looked and saw I had PCOS so now it'll be the short one. Started metformin too. Will have IVF cycle after next which I am feeling optimistic about now. Xxx

Wow, that's quick. You must be super excited... Christmas BFP! xx

 

[Unicorn]

How exciting, I've got everything crossed for you and hopefully you'll get your bfp before starting the IVF xx

 

[millielaura]

Oh I'm so so sorry snowbee . Xx

 

[phonixgirl]

Thanks ladies! The nurse said it would be just in time for Christmas too so I really hope it happens...

Unicorn - I haven't got long to get a natural(ish) BFP but I guess it could still happen!

The only reason I can't do it next cycle is because I am having the thing to help implantation, which they need to do at least 10 days before the start of the cycle. There is no waiting list.

Xxx

 

[Unicorn]

Thanks ladies! The nurse said it would be just in time for Christmas too so I really hope it happens...

Unicorn - I haven't got long to get a natural(ish) BFP but I guess it could still happen!

The only reason I can't do it next cycle is because I am having the thing to help implantation, which they need to do at least 10 days before the start of the cycle. There is no waiting list.

Xxx

Well, either way it sounds like you're going to be on your way to being a mummy very soon xx

 

[phonixgirl]

Unicorn - I really hope so.

I know you said about private IVF, but is there any reason why you can't have IUI? Xxx

 

[Ragdoll]

Sorry to hear your sad news Snowbee xxx

 

[Emily0505]

Hello my lovelies!

I'm sneaking aboard...

In five days we will have been ttc for a year.

I did fall pregnant but sadly had a mmc. From the first spotting to getting the all clear from the hospital was four weeks and I'm just on CD3 of my first af after losing my lil bug.

I hope nobody minds me posting... I know my journey is nothing like as long as difficult as that of many of you.

Wishing all of you ladies all the luck in the world!

XX

 

[Blueflower]

Hi Emily, no course we don't mind!
So sorry Snowbee that's devastating. Hope you're not back for long.
I just found out my SIL is having another baby, I am pleased for them and trying to stay positive for us but it just feels as if we are being pushed further and further to the back of the queue. It had to be our turn next! We keep having to congratulate people when I feel as if I've been punched in the stomach, when you congratulate the same people twice when you're still waiting it really sucks. Will anyone be envious of us when its our turn?! Or by the time its our turn it will be more like "oh at last, what took you so long?!" And I'm trying to be positive as its our final ivf but I can't bear to think that it could never happen if time runs out soon.
She had morning sickness and felt awful but I couldn't help thinking "at least you're pregnant, I feel rough as I'm being pumped full of IVF drugs and there's no guarantees it won't all be for nothing again."
Glad we have this thread to moan on!

 

[Emily0505]

I found out my sil is pregnant too.

She's due the day after I would have been with my lil bug.

I'm happy for them, as they've had one hell of a journey to get this baby, but I'm sad it's not me too.

XX

 

[phonixgirl]

DH's cousin was just saying to me how she is depressed, has no money and wants to run away. She had a baby last September and is due another next month..! (Both unplanned, needless to say.) I felt like saying, "at least you can have children!".

It us so frustrating. I'm not in a good mood today as my spotting has continued but AF isn't due until Sunday. It hasn't been this bad for months. I was supposed to go to the gym tonight but didn't. I hope the metformin starts working soon...

 

[Crazycatwoman]

Our vet and my student nurse are both pregnant in practice. It's super hard! Something that I want so badly, it just happens for them unplanned! So depressing ��
We will all get there At some point ladies, got each other for pick me ups! XXXX
Lots and lots of baby dust xxxxx

 

[xMillie]

I was hoping to get off this boat before my HSG but no...
AF started yesterday so now HSG is booked for Monday, so scared.