Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[Andreax2]

Hi purplecloud, me too. Have also finished taking my soy for this cycle and now it is just wait and see if it worked as it is looking like that is going to be our only hope.

Had a disappointing day, we saw our consultant for all of 10 minutes. We still didn't get to look at any of our results, he went on for ages about the chemicals my husband works with adversely affecting sperm and then said his sperm test was perfect. The only comment he made on my bloods was that one test had been missed off and gave me a form to get some more taken. Then he said I was too fat, that was why we were finding ttc difficult and that was why I had a mc. He then said he would see us again in 6 months when I was thin and then they would 'deal with' my pcos. Great. I know I am fat but I'm not that big (I'm a 14-16). Feeling pretty awful right now and that it is all my fault that we are in this situation.

Wow what an arse ! Big hugs hun xx

 

[stacesl3]

I think we need to get all these doctors/consultants etc on board and make them all the plank!!! (We will need to be in shark infested waters at the time of course) *cue evil laugh*

I honestly think they have no clue, so they resort to the 'too old', 'too fat', too young etc etc etc blah blah!!

Hope all you ladies are all okay, how am i only on 8dpo?? it feels like 80dpo! UGH!

 

[snowbee]

, how am i only on 8dpo?? it feels like 80dpo! UGH!

Haha! I know that feeling. Hope the rest of the days speed past for you

 

[lisey]

Welcome to the new people on this thread

To my old shipmates, sorry I have not posted for a while, been wallowing in self pity, the last week has been a hard one but AF has left, the fertile time is approaching and I am ready to go.

Who's due to test? xx

 

[FBTTN8079]

Lisey sorry you've had a hard week sweet hugs xx

 

[FBTTN8079]

Have we got anyone hanging around those lifeboats ready to jump ship X

 

[snowbee]

I'm still on board, cd10. Taken my soy for this cycle so now waiting until next week to see if I get a pos opk, please work!

Anyone due to test soon?

 

[FBTTN8079]

I'm still on board, cd10. Taken my soy for this cycle so now waiting until next week to see if I get a pos opk, please work!

Anyone due to test soon?

Good luck with the soy fingers crossed xxx

 

[Hopeful75]

I'm still on board. Af due on Friday, so trying to hold off testing until then. Would love to test tomorrow though- two years to the day since we found out about mmc #1. Not a great idea though- I've been managing to cope this week (all four pg have links to this week), but a bfn would prob finish me off, despite knowing how likely it is!

 

[stacesl3]

Evening ladies

Still on the ship alongside you all

I'm still only 9dpo..... although feels more like 59dpo..... I remember back in the day when I was a novice ttc the first week always seemed to fly by it was those last few days that were tough and always a temptation to test, now the first week or so drags so much.............................ugh

Anniversaries are hard Hopeful xx FX for this month hun and to all of us x

 

[Sugarpop]

How are we floating today girlies?

 

[Andreax2]

Hey ship mates I'm still around just taking a backseat and having a chilled out 2 ww thought the soy would make 2ww symptoms worse but nothing 2 report ! I have my appointment with consultant 2day at 4 so excited and alittle nervous ! X

 

[stacesl3]

Afternoon all,

Well bfn @ 11dpo for me, I know its still pretty early but I know I haven't caught this month. I might look into soy maybe for next cycle, when do you ladies take it and how much??

Good luck with your appt Andrea xx

 

[snowbee]

I did soy days 2-6, 100 on days 2-4 and 150 on days 5-6. I may experiment with the days and dose if I don't ov on this.

 

[sandygems]

6dpo today, no symptoms at all lol and trying to resist urges to do silly early tests by doing opks instead ha ha off for my first ever 21 day bloods tomorrow and a bit nervous or the results... Hope they don't take ages to come back! X

 

[sandygems]

How did ur appointment go Andrea? X

 

[MelC2011]

How did it go Andrea?
Sorry Stace, but your not out yet xx

 

[Andreax2]

Well 2 hours I waited ! Didn't get out till 6.30 ! But scan booked and I have 2 phone on first day of af 2 book my hsg so looks like il be having it the week after next , also had swaps done 4 STIs nice ! But I think it has 2 be done b4 hsg
Staces sorry u got a bfn hun , I done soy cd 3-7 and done 80 80 80 120 120 - think I'm gunna do 120 120 120 then 160 last2 days x
Good luck with ur results sandy , think mine came back after a week fx 4 u xx

 

[Sugarpop]

Hello sailors!! Went to my GP today so she can chase my gyno appointments up! Still waiting for AF over here but taking a relaxed approach thinking what will be will be!

 

[Sugarpop]

So now FF has reinterpreted my temps and it seems I didn't ovulate when it said I did. Not surprising really