Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[Andreax2]

Aww bethy that's great news !!!
FB sorry the results were not great hugs lovey xx
Clem have the best hols !!!!!
Staces u have 2share the hunky men !! Can we b pirates and behave really bad while Clem's away !!
Lisey how did it go ? R u in a corner rocking somewhere ? Hugs lovely hope ur ok and it went well and ur not 2 snotty xxx

 

[FBTTN8079]

OMG OMG OMG!!! I've just had my fertility referral through!!! I can't believe it - just cried to my oh! I thought I had to wait another year since my miscarriage (fell pregnant a month after 21 day bloods and SA) but clearly not! I really felt like I'd been left in the gutter and our problems pushed aside. I just can't believe it, appointment's 22/07! OMG OMG OMG OMG!!

Yay that's fab news really pleased for you Hon x x

 

[Bethyboo87]

Thanks everyone, just got off the phone to a mortgage advisor too I feel very overwhelmed lol! x

 

[Hopeful75]

Bethyboo- lovely news!
Clementine- have a wonderful hols, forget about us all and enjoy Sun, sea, sand and s!
Andrea and Stace- I'm joining you on the corrupting sailors or becoming pirates front (although eye patches are not the most attractive so I'll pass on those thanks!

 

[stacesl3]

Morning ladies

Thats great news Bethyboo
Andrea - hope you got your pirate outfit ready?? and I wanna see a pic . Come join us hopeful corrupting I mean entertaining the sailors....

Feeling a little emotional today....The pregnant girl in my office went for her mw appt yesterday, i asked her how it went and she was all excited as she got to hear baby's hb and said everything was good which is lovely of course and am happy for her, but at the same time I really felt like crying, I just wish it was me! I dont mean to sound selfish but cant help thinking like that

 

[FBTTN8079]

Oh stace it's hard isn't it. it's a tough old journey on this boat & so odd feeling happy for someone but so sad at the same time , your not selfish at all xxx

 

[Bethyboo87]

Aww hun, you're not selfish!! I feel like ttc brings out the worst in me, I get so jealous, say horrible things about people, get upset, snap at oh etc... I don't mean to, but I can't help reacting in that way. I can't wait until I actually have my baby and this horrible part of my life will be over. It's all a reaction to not being able to fulfil our natural instinct, it's bound to affect us xx

 

[lisey]

Hi ladies,

Andrea, it was emotional to say the least, all the children gave him cards. So sad but lovely too. Hope you're ok from today too.

Bethyboo, that's great about the referral

Stace, you're not selfish at all, its so natural and normal to feel like that xx

Sarah, I am not sure about the 'A' thing, I am not familiar with that I'm afraid.

Well had my follow up appointment yesterday, the results are not good. The numbers are 2 when they should be 10 for someone my age so time is not on my side. I still have eggs and am ovulating fine but I don't have time to waste. 3 months trying and then straight to IVF. I don't feel as terrible as I thought I would, he said there is still every chance it can happen naturally, my chances are not reduced in that sense but we have to be careful how long we leave it before intervening. He said everything else is fine, apart from endometriosis which does impact and is confident that OH quitting smoking will make all the difference. I also have a prescription for progesterone to use from ovulation now.

To all my ltttc ladies I would say, please get your FSH tested and if you're being seen by fertility then get AMH done, I am young so have been told so often, you will be fine, you're young. It just shows it doesn't work like that and sometimes mother nature has her own ideas. Its best to know, I am happy I know cos now we have a plan.

I got tips out of him that you all might be interested in, I asked how often is ok to dtd, he said every other day is good enough but every day will in no way reduce your chances (unless sperm issues of course). He said egg lives for 12-24 hours and I think he said sperm 48-72 (so not as long as we're lead to believe) so for me, I have a 26-27 day cycle and ov around 13-14, he said if I bd from cd11-16 every other day (or everyday if we have the energy lol) then would be plenty covered. He said to try hard for 3 months, so we have our instructions from the professional xx

 

[lisey]

I forgot to add, the CM has continued, loads of it. I keep feeling like I have wet myself...Oh the joys!! I don't have any symptoms this cycle and I usually have everything so that could be a symptom or it could be cos I told myself I wouldn't read into things too much. We all know that's easier said than done.
Boobs have only just felt tender today, usually hurt right from Ov. That's it, along with increased CM and some occasional stabby feelings. I usually have headaches, sore boobs, queasy, dizzy...everything lol. Pregnant or not pregnant, its quite nice not obsessing too much. Maybe its just cos I have had other stuff to focus on this 2WW xx

 

[Andreax2]

Oh lisey huge hugs hun , what a bloody week u really have it all going on , I'm so sorry it wasn't better news , lis- do u mind me asking how old u r ? Fx it happens in the next 3 months r gunna need 2 leave that tea alone and stand on ur head while his doing it ,Whilst wearing a pirate costume !
Thanks 4 the advice it will b written down and taken with me 2 the hospital
Anyway I have high hopes 4 u this cycle missy ! There's a life boat with ur name on it !

 

[Andreax2]

 

[Andreax2]

Staces - just a little number I had in the back of the wardrobe !!

 

[Sugarpop]

Do we all get them???

 

[Bethyboo87]

We'd better get a uniform allowance with the amount we're spending on tests etc!!

 

[stacesl3]

Thanks ladies. She is a nice girl so i am happy for her, I just want it to be me

Sorry it wasn't better news lisey, but sounds like you have a good doctor - half the battle having someone on side to help! I had that with the cm a few months ago, was weird, i was walking to work and felt a gush (sorry tmi there lol) thought i'd pee'd myself, but was just cm! I think its a good sign having no symptoms, like you I get tons of symptoms every month, FX for you!!!!

I'm ringing my doctors tomorrow to see if the results of my 3 day bloods are in.

 

[stacesl3]

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I have the exact same one in blue!!! We can be pirate twins LOL!!!

 

[Andreax2]

every 1 gets 1 million doubloons 2 plunder on dresses !!!!!

 

[Andreax2]

Good luck with phoning the docs in the morning staces have everything crossed 4 u xx

 

[Hopeful75]

Well lisey, I have to say you're amazing! I hope that the next three months brings success naturally, but regardless you have such a great outlook that it's brilliant and makes me feel more optimistic about all our chances!
And ladies, whilst the pirate costumes are lovely, I'm more interested in the sailors!

 

[Hopeful75]

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