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bfn on frer this afternoon, pretty sure this is not our month.
 
Af not due for another 7 days. But I don’t feel pregnant if that makes sense. Think this month is a bust
 
Ladies I'm so sorry for those of you who are out. I hope that it's just too early and you get those beautiful BFPs after all, if not this month than next. I'm sending good thoughts to all of you.
 
I think my first AF since MC may be arriving in the next couple of days, had some spotting this morning..I really hope so, just kinda want it to get done now as I know it's going to be a nasty one. (Although I'm also going to a Kasabian concert on the weekend so being stuck in a field if it's bad won't be so much fun haha!!) Had a 24hr sickness bug a couple of days ago and stupidly thought for a millisecond that I might have fallen pg again quickly... haha, as if! I should know better than that by now!!

Wishing you all so much luck this month and for those of you that are out...chins up, keep smiling, tomorrow is another day! :lol: xxx
 
I think my first AF since MC may be arriving in the next couple of days, had some spotting this morning..I really hope so, just kinda want it to get done now as I know it's going to be a nasty one. (Although I'm also going to a Kasabian concert on the weekend so being stuck in a field if it's bad won't be so much fun haha!!) Had a 24hr sickness bug a couple of days ago and stupidly thought for a millisecond that I might have fallen pg again quickly... haha, as if! I should know better than that by now!!

Wishing you all so much luck this month and for those of you that are out...chins up, keep smiling, tomorrow is another day! :lol: xxx


It's awful when you think you are but your not. My first AF after mc wasn't heavy even though I was told it would be. The second was worse. So you may have a fairly light or normal one. x
 
14dpo, atill a BFN, but feel really nauseous and sick, am exhausted and had very painful cramping last night...sooo odd.
 
Hey sunflower, thanks for that, yes true that would be good if it wasn't so bad!

That is strange, do you know what day you Ov'd on?? Any possibility it could have been later?? x
 
Sorry to read all your stories ladies, it’s truly heartbreaking, I had a mc at what I thought was 15+5 on the 12th May but once I had given birth it turned out baby had only made it to around 14 weeks, were ready to start trying again ASAP, not to replace our angel but because we would like something lovely to focus on as I also lost my dad on May 1st so I guess I will be joining you all in here if that’s ok? X
 
Sorry to read all your stories ladies, it’s truly heartbreaking, I had a mc at what I thought was 15+5 on the 12th May but once I had given birth it turned out baby had only made it to around 14 weeks, were ready to start trying again ASAP, not to replace our angel but because we would like something lovely to focus on as I also lost my dad on May 1st so I guess I will be joining you all in here if that’s ok? X


I'm so sorry about your mc and the loss of your dad. What a lot to go through. x
 
Hope everyone is doing okay xx


I’m mostly trying to keep away from here but I’m always curious to see if any long termers got their bfp and if anyone trying after mc gets their lucky sticky bean.

We’ve not tracked this cycle, I completely forgot about opks and I haven’t felt like really trying. Think I’m cd25 now, on cd18 or 19 I had a small amount of pink blood and my boobs have hurt like hell these last few days. I’m sure neither of them means anything.

Kind of can’t wait to get my period because if this cycle is also another long cycle with only a short bleed then I think it’s time to pester the doctors.
 
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Sorry to read all your stories ladies, it’s truly heartbreaking, I had a mc at what I thought was 15+5 on the 12th May but once I had given birth it turned out baby had only made it to around 14 weeks, were ready to start trying again ASAP, not to replace our angel but because we would like something lovely to focus on as I also lost my dad on May 1st so I guess I will be joining you all in here if that’s ok? X


I'm so sorry about your mc and the loss of your dad. What a lot to go through. x

Thankyou, it’s not been easy, it’s still not easy but I’ve just got to learn to live with it I guess and try to move forward xx
 
Bfn this morning, now spotting this afternoon. Think af is coming tomorrow
 
Sorry to read all your stories ladies, it’s truly heartbreaking, I had a mc at what I thought was 15+5 on the 12th May but once I had given birth it turned out baby had only made it to around 14 weeks, were ready to start trying again ASAP, not to replace our angel but because we would like something lovely to focus on as I also lost my dad on May 1st so I guess I will be joining you all in here if that’s ok? X


I'm so sorry about your mc and the loss of your dad. What a lot to go through. x

Thankyou, it’s not been easy, it’s still not easy but I’ve just got to learn to live with it I guess and try to move forward xx


it'll take time. Good to focus on TTC. xx
 
Hello ladies, just thought I'd check in and see how you all are. As predicted and (of course it would because it's my general luck) lovely f'irst AF after MC 'appeared yesterday with a vengeance just in time for me to go and stand in a field for the afternoon watching a gig with nothing but portaloos and queues... You've never seen so much paraphernalia in one hand bag let me tell you!! :dohh:
Anyway all is well... no embarrassing situ's! Glad it's done, although I'm feeling a bit weird about not trying this month when ov rolls around again - this will be the first month ever in over 4 years that we haven't been trying when it's possible to. Seems a waste almost...but for the better once we get some more tests I know. So...for now I will mostly just be crossing everything for you lovely lot! xx

PS. dinkydizzy, just take your time lovely, I posted on your other thread, but at that gestation your body needs time to heal, you obviously do what you need to of course but I just wouldn't want you to expect too much too soon that's all. I only mention because I did and it wasn't' until about 3 months after my late mc that I realized my body hadn't been in any way back to normal in those months to reconceive and to not put too much pressure on x
 
Hello ladies, just thought I'd check in and see how you all are. As predicted and (of course it would because it's my general luck) lovely f'irst AF after MC 'appeared yesterday with a vengeance just in time for me to go and stand in a field for the afternoon watching a gig with nothing but portaloos and queues... You've never seen so much paraphernalia in one hand bag let me tell you!! :dohh:
Anyway all is well... no embarrassing situ's! Glad it's done, although I'm feeling a bit weird about not trying this month when ov rolls around again - this will be the first month ever in over 4 years that we haven't been trying when it's possible to. Seems a waste almost...but for the better once we get some more tests I know. So...for now I will mostly just be crossing everything for you lovely lot! xx

PS. dinkydizzy, just take your time lovely, I posted on your other thread, but at that gestation your body needs time to heal, you obviously do what you need to of course but I just wouldn't want you to expect too much too soon that's all. I only mention because I did and it wasn't' until about 3 months after my late mc that I realized my body hadn't been in any way back to normal in those months to reconceive and to not put too much pressure on x

Thankyou for your advice lovely 😊
AF returned to me today too, just in time for my first shift back at work since this all happened,hurrah! Luckily it hasn’t been too heavy or too painful yet and I’m not back at work again now until Friday so thankfully I will get the worst at home!
 
Sorry to read all your stories ladies, it’s truly heartbreaking, I had a mc at what I thought was 15+5 on the 12th May but once I had given birth it turned out baby had only made it to around 14 weeks, were ready to start trying again ASAP, not to replace our angel but because we would like something lovely to focus on as I also lost my dad on May 1st so I guess I will be joining you all in here if that’s ok? X

So sorry to hear about your loss dinkydizzy xx
 
Sorry to hear af has arrived for lots of you. Cd33 here and still no sign of af, usually 28 day cycles, still getting bfns so just waiting for af to arrive and hoping it’s not too much longer. I guess my cycles are still messed up from the last loss xx
 

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