The Wright Stuff topic today (Gay Books For Junior Schools)

[Minxy]

Ebony, my managers at work are black caribbean (guys) and they say men of their culture generally find GIVING oral sex to be a no-no.

Is it to personal to ask if that's been your experience?

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

Ebony, my managers at work are black caribbean (guys) and they say men of their culture generally find GIVING oral sex to be a no-no.

Is it to personal to ask if that's been your experience?

yep..

but u will also find that.. black men like to show strength

my o/h is a rasta and obviosuly black..
he acts to his friends (obv black) as if he dont do it.. but he loves it

same here...lol

i only go jamaican clubs and all our songs are anti-oral anti-gay

and when they say

''if u know u aint eating under the sheets.. u raise ur hand'

my hands are the first to go up..lol

alot of black people do it... they just dont admit it

but i pierce my tongue as a bait get the right black man

lol

were no diff... we just lie or hide it

 

[Xena]

I haven't read all this thread, but I disagree with the books.

I can't really explain it, really I think it's probably a lot to do with my mother being very anti-homosexual (not homophobic - she's not got a PHOBIA of gay people....she just thinks it's profoundly wrong!)

My father is very blatently anti-homosexual also. To a worse degree even than my mother. He is frequently making remarks about "poofs".

You'll find a lot of your parents attitudes rub off on you, whether you want them to or not.

In general, I have nothing amazingly against gay people. Actually my best friend is a lesbian, and my husband has an enormous crush on Johnny Depp lol (he calls himself bi-selective haha). I myself fancy Xena/Lucy Lawless. (Only her though - maybe I'm bi-selective myself lol).

I wouldn't be able to bring myself to do anything with a woman though (if I wasn't married of course).

I think deep down, some part of me thinks that it's wrong - unnatural. I'm sure it's because of my parents influences.

Part of me thinks that love is love, and it shouldn't matter who you love. But another part of me thinks that it's going against nature, and is actually a sin.

Anyway, suffice to say, that if Lydia were to end up a lesbian, of course I would still love her and accept her decision, but I can't say I wouldn't be disappointed. I don't think I'd be able to help it.

So about these books, well I disagree with them, because I don't want Lydia to learn that being homosexual is okay and that there's nothing wrong with it, because part of me thinks there IS something wrong with it, even if I don't want to think that way.

God I'm such a cow lol.

 

[cab'o'holic]

I dont know a lot of good friends of mine are gay so I have nothing against them, and Lukes godfather is gay.
It depends on what age group they will be for and how they do it.

 

[kirlykird]

I don't have a problem with gays but I don't agree with the books in school, I just don't think it's needed.

 

[Dee1985]

my uncle told me he would disown me if i was to go out with a white guy

my dad said he would kick me out if i ever went with a black man. so when we argued i used to say... im going to give you black grandkids

i couldnt care less though if Dior did.

how do you feel about your kids with white people?

 

[PyscoFalcon]

I'm against it. In highschool maybe but deffinatly not infants/Juniors. There's just no need for them to know anything like that until "big schoo"

 

[lauramumof2]

it would be nice if someone took time out to actually teach some of them the 3 'rs.