SORRY THIS IS VERY LONG, BUT MAY HELP U ALL
sorry if i`m repeated anything that has already been said but danielle isn`t letting me read all your posts lol.......
danielle had her 8 month check-up last week and i mentioned danielle`s sleeping habits.
now the hv was harsh and did tell us it was our fault and as she was our first it was a learning curve, she was shocked that danielle still woke during the night for milk.
she asked us to describe danielles nightly routine, so i did......
danielle has a bath and a bottle at 7, then me or daddy will get her to sleep by rocking or laying in our bed with her, then she would wake 2-4 times a night just for milk. once she got the milk she went straight back to sleep. some night she would take 12-15oz.
the hv said to start things off she should be getting herself to sleep, by us placing her in her cot and letting her cry (omg i don`t want to do this was my exact thought) then we can just reduce the milk once she learnt to settle herself.
so me and dp decided enough was enough.....we tried it. the first night she cried for an hour and a half, second night was 40 mins, third night was 10 mins and last night was 1 min. and she has slept 12 hours every night.
hurray for a whole nights sleep.
I REALLY DO HOPE THIS CAN HELP SOME OF U.