So down over my weight.

[redbear]

I've been in tears again today about my weight.
I lost 4 stone last year but due to circumstances I could no longer go to class. The weight started to creep back on and so I went to the dr. I asked if there where any support groups or anything available for me. She told me that there was nothing because I don't have any health conditions caused by my weight.
Anyway I fell pregnant and stepped on the scales. I've pretty much gained back three out of four stone and I weigh loads.
I feel like a freak show my bmi is so high.
So sat crying most of the day. I'm trying to watch what I eat, eating lean meat and veg etc but It feels too late now.
It doesn't help I had a really nasty consultant last time and I now weigh the same as I did with my other pregnancies.

I can't talk to my husband as he doesn't see my weight and tells me I'm being silly and I know he hates hearing it.

Anyway don't know what I'm expecting it's my own fault I'm like this.

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[Emmajaine]

Oh hun, I completely understand how you are feeling, and am in a very similar boat, in that I has lost nearly 2 stone since last summer and and now back in the clothes I was wearing last summer
Am such an emotional eater too. And anytime I feel crappy about myself I eat chocolate and then feel shit because of all the caffeine I'm eating so eat something else, and so on and so on.

Try not to be too hard on yourself (easier said I know), once baby is here the weight will come off again, you have done it once, you can do it again. In the mean time know that right now you are growing a baby and that is a bloody hard job! Xx

 

[redbear]

Yes i know I'm so grateful that I can carry a baby but I'm just beating myself up.
I'm an emotional eater too and my husband doesn't help because he shows love by buying me all the food i love but is terrible for me. I can't even be mad because his heart is in the right place but it doesn't help.
I feel a bit better today thank you for the reply love xx

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[cassi]

I'm in the same boat don't worry you'll get there!! Just concentrate on the pregnancy first your body is telling you what it needs and remember a tonne of weight is also water retention, and the placenta!!

 

[redbear]

Thank you loves you really do help me feel better. Xx

 

[1sttimemum2b]

I have hg (hyperemesis gravidarum) and have lost so much weight during pregnancy and i feel the opposite. I would love to eat. I've had insensitive comments from people including doctors saying well least you have weight to lose and why you complaining your losing weight. For the first time it's the time were i want to be able to eat what i want and too sick to enjoy it.
My advice is don't worry now until after baby is born, just try and be healthy with gentle exercise. Good luck