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***November Testing Thread***

HELP i just bought a hpt—I’m max 7dpo. I really want to take it!!!! I’ve got these cramps and weird cm, but i know it’s way too early HELP ME IM A CRAZY PERSON

Haha I would have taken it already! Best not to buy until the day you want to test in my experience! Even if you wait till the morning there's more chance. Xxx good luck x
 
Sorry Millie, it might not be yet.
It's such a let down if it is and im totally resigned to seeing AF even if I get BFPs. But im not giving up.
Unless im too old I will keep hope.
Hugs xxx

I know :(
It's rubbish if you've had losses cause you never know if the next is actually gonna stick

I have 1 frer left, I don't know if I should use it tomorrow (14dpo) or just accept that I'm out?
Still getting pinky/orangy cm but it does look like what I sometimes get at start of af.. so it's probably that


Does anyone else here hate Christmas?
Every year it's the same no one ever visits us
I know it would be the opposite if we had children..
Our parents facebooks are full of their grandchildren receiving their gifts
our house is always so empty and sad :(
Can't ever go to anyone else's though because we have our cat
I'm dreading it again :(

I get what you mean about Christmas. I wouldn't bother really but OH is one of those Christmas people. We live 450 miles away from family so always do the travelling and it's just such a drain. Tbh I don't think we even had a tree until about 3 years after we moved cos I just didn't get round to it and the fact we're never at home, it didn't seem worth the effort. On the one hand it's good to get some Christmas spirit but I think with everything at the moment I'm really starting to get fed up. I know we'll keep doing it though cos despite all the crap we're going through, I still love seeing the excitement on our little nephew's face and it does make the journey feel worth it. How far are you from family? Is there anyone who could help out with the cat? Just thinking some Christmas cheer might lift your spirits a little?
 
Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just :( The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel :( Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? :( We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch! :)

Sorry :( xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves :(

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment :)

Sorry you're out Pidgeridoo. It hits harder when you are so hopeful. I've never done early testing. I know a lot of ladies do and what works for one doesn't work for another. For me, it would just add another level of stress that I just don't need. For me, either I'm pregnant or I'm not. I couldn't deal with the in between!!
 
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Congrats Malagueta!!

Sorry to those who are out. I've updated to here.

Got Day 21 bloods arranged for Friday and all the others for the start of next cycle which I'm sure will arrive promptly as usual. At least I'm doing something proactive.
 
So pleased to see a BFP and the clearest one I've seen I think. I'm rubbish at seeing lines on pics on here lol.

We 're in BD mode this week so I won't be due to test until the very end of the month. Following you all avidly and hope you 're right about the Xmas sticky bean. Just want something to fall into place. We have been trying so hard to clear credit card debt and get ourselves in a good place for a baby. Just need the last piece of the puzzle x
 
So pleased to see a BFP and the clearest one I've seen I think. I'm rubbish at seeing lines on pics on here lol.

We 're in BD mode this week so I won't be due to test until the very end of the month. Following you all avidly and hope you 're right about the Xmas sticky bean. Just want something to fall into place. We have been trying so hard to clear credit card debt and get ourselves in a good place for a baby. Just need the last piece of the puzzle x

Exactly the same position as you chick!
Good luck
Here's to our hopeful sticky Christmas bean :-)
 
Congrats everyone who has gotten a BFP :)

I'm currently cycle day 32 and no signs of pregnancy or AF! I'm not sure even I've even ovulated this cycle as came off pill 10th October! I am impatiently waiting for one or the other! I have had EWCM at two different times but not sure if it actually meant anything. Just got to keep waiting. Not sure when I will wait until before testing again. Good luck everyone :)
 
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I know I'm not out for October yet but I'm not feeling hopeful so I hope no one minds me starting this.

1st - CoveyClover :witch:

2nd

3rd - Nicky78. kelly30

4th

5th

6th - millielaura :witch:

7th

8th -

9th

10th - Little_Pip :witch:, rainbow.23 :witch:

11th - JaneyJan

12th - Kazz1n

13th - babyscotcher :witch:

14th - malagueta :bfp:

15th

16th - Pidgeridoo :witch:, xMillie :witch:

17th - Fastnet1 :witch:

18th

19th - KatD, LuckyLaura

20th - Ammonite

21st

22nd - TS1982, honeygirl

23rd - Sunflower1

24th - Cherrygirl, linxminx21

25th - Alexis2017, CDK500, MoominGirl, hopeful1976

26th

27th

28th - Baby Cakes

29th

30th - Nikkibiscuit

Good luck to everyone!!

:dust::dust::dust:

Can you change me to Monday 20th? I think I got muddled up with my dates before x
 
So I'm 9dpo today and have refused to buy a test cos I know I'll cave so waiting for af as I feel totally normal so believe I missed my chance this month. Sorry to those the witch got and good luck to all of you left to test xx :dust: xx
 
Can I add in?

Think I'm 9/10 dpp so put me in for 20th? thanks :)

fingers crossed to everyone xx
 
Jezby youve done well to not cave! 20th is very respectable! Fingers crossed for you x
 
Jezby youve done well to not cave! 20th is very respectable! Fingers crossed for you x

kidding aren't you? lol I've test about 6 times already :dance::roll:

But 20th is when AF is due so I'm being good :)

Ive literally just poas BFN obv as it was this morning - need to have a word with myself!!!! x
 
Lol! I was like that last month so teying yo wait yill sat or sun at earliest! Bet i cave fri though!
 
Good morning ladies!!! Dtd this morning and had some spotting so it's not looking too good. Cramps come and go but I'm still holding onto hope, this show isn't over yet. FX ladies :dust:
 
Good morning! I did end up doing a test a couple days ago, of course it was negative, but I was expecting that.

It’s fun and inspiring to read all the BFP developments. FX that we all have our time soon xx
 
Hi all, I think that I'm about to get my period. Had spotting today. Little bit in my underwear and when I wiped. I put a pantry liner on as was such a little amount but thought it may get heavier if AF did arrive. I haven't had anymore spotting, nothing on liner, and nothing when I wipe. I've only had mild cramps as well. Convinced that AF isn't too far behind though. I don't mind too much if do get AF as currently CD34 post withdrawal bleed after stopping the pill. Good luck to everyone still waiting
 
Back again! Can I have the 30th please! Just starting the 2ww again! Good luck everyone x
 
Hey everyone :) congrats for the bfps and I'm sorry for the ladies who got the witch :( millie I can't imagine what u are going through hugssss.

I'm having the weirdest cycle ever this month with random spotting halfway through for no apparent reason then nothing. Now I have sore bbs and no sign of af coming early so that's good I guess. Not sure if I'm holding out much hope tbh.

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FX hun!! I hope the spotting is a good sign and that you get a bfp really soon!!! Wait for me, eh? :hugs:
 

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