***November Testing Thread***

[Nikkibiscuit]

How's everyone doing? We have had a good week of BD probabky the best one we have managed. 4 times albeit only 3 successful I think hubby was knackered mid week. Aiming for every other day seems to be helping.....less pressure than focussing on peak days. I'm not using opks as found it too stressful so just going off my app as a general idea and gonna try and keep with every other day as best we can for at least another week. So wish we can get our BFP for Xmas. We spending it with my parents who live 300 miles away for first time in 3 years and would just be amazing to be able to tell them at Xmas. Staying positive and believing everything will fall into place in the end. Sending baby dust out to everyone still to test or still baby dancing! Xx

 

[Gupster]

How do you all cope with the waiting?

I'm symptom spotting constantly and today my brain is going crazy cause I feel like I've got the worse hangover ever and I haven't had any alcohol for weeks

 

[_GG_]

How's everyone doing? We have had a good week of BD probabky the best one we have managed. 4 times albeit only 3 successful I think hubby was knackered mid week. Aiming for every other day seems to be helping.....less pressure than focussing on peak days. I'm not using opks as found it too stressful so just going off my app as a general idea and gonna try and keep with every other day as best we can for at least another week. So wish we can get our BFP for Xmas. We spending it with my parents who live 300 miles away for first time in 3 years and would just be amazing to be able to tell them at Xmas. Staying positive and believing everything will fall into place in the end. Sending baby dust out to everyone still to test or still baby dancing! Xx

Really hope this is your month Nikkibiscuit.

 

[Melly41]

Sounds like a much better plan nikkibiscuit. Hope it works out for you this time x

 

[Nikkibiscuit]

Thanks GG and melly I hope this is our month. Babysitting the niece and nephew tonight and feel awful cos I love them to bits but find being around them super hard at the moment cos just painful reminder of what we haven't got yet. But my sister in law had it tough she had a miscarriage then lost her mum when she was pregnant with my nephew so her mum never met him. So sad. And she went on to have my niece as well so there is hope x

 

[Melly41]

It is super hard but youll have your wee family soon hopefully x

 

[Sunflower1]

Good luck Nikkibiscuit! xx

 

[MoominGirl]

Good luck Nikkibiscuit and welcome to the forums Gupster!!

Skin isn't looking great so I'm not filled with hope. The witch will get me Friday/Saturday, I'm sure of it

Good luck to everyone else who's testing soon.

 

[holli]

Good luck ladies I keep checking in on you all fx she doesn't show moomin xx

 

[MoominGirl]

Thaanks holli. After all this time my expectations aren't exactly high but I'll find out soon enough.

 

[Gupster]

Thanks moomingirl, I have everything crossed that af doesn't come for you, that means we are both due either bfp or af next weekend.

Sending baby dust to everyone x

 

[KatD]

Did you test Laura?

 

[Alexis2017]

Thanks GG and melly I hope this is our month. Babysitting the niece and nephew tonight and feel awful cos I love them to bits but find being around them super hard at the moment cos just painful reminder of what we haven't got yet. But my sister in law had it tough she had a miscarriage then lost her mum when she was pregnant with my nephew so her mum never met him. So sad. And she went on to have my niece as well so there is hope x

Know how you feel. We drove 7 hours down to Northampton to see our niece whos 4 and nephew whos 2...had a great wknd amd almost home now but it was also hard at times cos it reminded ua too of wjat we are missing

 

[honeygirl]

Thanks GG and melly I hope this is our month. Babysitting the niece and nephew tonight and feel awful cos I love them to bits but find being around them super hard at the moment cos just painful reminder of what we haven't got yet. But my sister in law had it tough she had a miscarriage then lost her mum when she was pregnant with my nephew so her mum never met him. So sad. And she went on to have my niece as well so there is hope x

Know how you feel. We drove 7 hours down to Northampton to see our niece whos 4 and nephew whos 2...had a great wknd amd almost home now but it was also hard at times cos it reminded ua too of wjat we are missing

I know the feeling...met two friends yesterday who told me they're pregnant. They're both within 2 weeks of where I should have been if I hadn't miscarried. I couldn't help but feel so jealous and angry, even though I'm happy for them. I always thought TTC would be fun, but it's hard and stressful.

 

[Pidgeridoo]

I haven't been on too much lately, I guess the chemical really hit me hard! I was so close to finally getting our BFP and then it was snatched away! Also with all the baby talk and bumps at work it felt like pouring salt in the wound and I was just not feeling it! I'm definitely not early testing anymore! We also aren't tracking anymore, we are just DTD when we feel like it! Anyway we have our appointment for the fertility clinic on December 14th so that's our first step in moving towards our sticky BFP! OH and I are continuing to take our pregnacare vitamins and I have also started baby asprin as I read that it can help if you have had chemicals! I have still been peeping in on you guys though, Congrats to the BFP's and good luck to everyone still due to test!

 

[Alexis2017]

I haven't been on too much lately, I guess the chemical really hit me hard! I was so close to finally getting our BFP and then it was snatched away! Also with all the baby talk and bumps at work it felt like pouring salt in the wound and I was just not feeling it! I'm definitely not early testing anymore! We also aren't tracking anymore, we are just DTD when we feel like it! Anyway we have our appointment for the fertility clinic on December 14th so that's our first step in moving towards our sticky BFP! OH and I are continuing to take our pregnacare vitamins and I have also started baby asprin as I read that it can help if you have had chemicals! I have still been peeping in on you guys though, Congrats to the BFP's and good luck to everyone still due to test!

Hey Pidge glad to hear from you. That why I never test as I don't want to know about chemicals if af comes...she comes which has happened every time some times late some times early. Good luck with your appt. Im still waiting my hsg test. We are all doing the best we can. I just hope we can all look back on tbese posts and say... wow remember that.....look at us now!

 

[Pidgeridoo]

I haven't been on too much lately, I guess the chemical really hit me hard! I was so close to finally getting our BFP and then it was snatched away! Also with all the baby talk and bumps at work it felt like pouring salt in the wound and I was just not feeling it! I'm definitely not early testing anymore! We also aren't tracking anymore, we are just DTD when we feel like it! Anyway we have our appointment for the fertility clinic on December 14th so that's our first step in moving towards our sticky BFP! OH and I are continuing to take our pregnacare vitamins and I have also started baby asprin as I read that it can help if you have had chemicals! I have still been peeping in on you guys though, Congrats to the BFP's and good luck to everyone still due to test!

Hey Pidge glad to hear from you. That why I never test as I don't want to know about chemicals if af comes...she comes which has happened every time some times late some times early. Good luck with your appt. Im still waiting my hsg test. We are all doing the best we can. I just hope we can all look back on tbese posts and say... wow remember that.....look at us now!

I was so convinced that I couldn't even get pregnant that it has came as a huge surprise that I actually CAN get pregnant and that there seems to be another issue as to why nothing has stuck in the last two plus years! I hope by this time next year Alexis we can look back with our bumps/babies and think how far we have come! Sending you loads of baby dust for this cycle, I'm going to keep everything crossed for you!

 

[Nikkibiscuit]

Thanks GG and melly I hope this is our month. Babysitting the niece and nephew tonight and feel awful cos I love them to bits but find being around them super hard at the moment cos just painful reminder of what we haven't got yet. But my sister in law had it tough she had a miscarriage then lost her mum when she was pregnant with my nephew so her mum never met him. So sad. And she went on to have my niece as well so there is hope x

Know how you feel. We drove 7 hours down to Northampton to see our niece whos 4 and nephew whos 2...had a great wknd amd almost home now but it was also hard at times cos it reminded ua too of wjat we are missing

It's so hard i love them to bits and I tell myself at least we are lucky to have family in our life. Any news from your end Alexis on tests etc? Xx

 

[MoominGirl]

I haven't been on too much lately, I guess the chemical really hit me hard! I was so close to finally getting our BFP and then it was snatched away! Also with all the baby talk and bumps at work it felt like pouring salt in the wound and I was just not feeling it! I'm definitely not early testing anymore! We also aren't tracking anymore, we are just DTD when we feel like it! Anyway we have our appointment for the fertility clinic on December 14th so that's our first step in moving towards our sticky BFP! OH and I are continuing to take our pregnacare vitamins and I have also started baby asprin as I read that it can help if you have had chemicals! I have still been peeping in on you guys though, Congrats to the BFP's and good luck to everyone still due to test!

Hey Pidge glad to hear from you. That why I never test as I don't want to know about chemicals if af comes...she comes which has happened every time some times late some times early. Good luck with your appt. Im still waiting my hsg test. We are all doing the best we can. I just hope we can all look back on tbese posts and say... wow remember that.....look at us now!

I was so convinced that I couldn't even get pregnant that it has came as a huge surprise that I actually CAN get pregnant and that there seems to be another issue as to why nothing has stuck in the last two plus years! I hope by this time next year Alexis we can look back with our bumps/babies and think how far we have come! Sending you loads of baby dust for this cycle, I'm going to keep everything crossed for you!

Hope you're doing ok Pidge. I can imagine a chemical would hit you really hard as it just feel so close. That's why I don't early test as I'd rather not know. I know I couldn't handle it. Good luck when your appointment comes. It's not long now!!

 

[MoominGirl]

Thanks GG and melly I hope this is our month. Babysitting the niece and nephew tonight and feel awful cos I love them to bits but find being around them super hard at the moment cos just painful reminder of what we haven't got yet. But my sister in law had it tough she had a miscarriage then lost her mum when she was pregnant with my nephew so her mum never met him. So sad. And she went on to have my niece as well so there is hope x

Know how you feel. We drove 7 hours down to Northampton to see our niece whos 4 and nephew whos 2...had a great wknd amd almost home now but it was also hard at times cos it reminded ua too of wjat we are missing

It's funny. My nephew is 5 but I actually find being around him oddly comforting despite what we're going through. Maybe it just helps keep me focused on what we're fighting for. It's a good thing I guess as I've come very close to giving up lately.