***November Testing Thread***

[KatD]

7/8dpo and tested a - ofcourse. Ugh!!! I so want this to be my cycle!!!!!

 

[Alexis2017]

Oh I'm sorry Millie . What is your next plan? I wish I could help in some way this is just so unfair.

 

[xMillie]

Oh I'm sorry Millie . What is your next plan? I wish I could help in some way this is just so unfair.

I'm not trying anymore, I've got a few cheapies left but I'm throwing them in the bin.
We will give our frozen embryo a go but that's it. I'm just done now I can't keep doing this

 

[JaneyJan]

Had some pink when wiping so I'm pretty sure I'm out

I'm done trying

Oh I'm sorry xMillie. I thought the same but never had any more come. Hope it's not AF...

 

[JaneyJan]

7/8dpo and tested a - ofcourse. Ugh!!! I so want this to be my cycle!!!!!

2 BFNs before my totally unexpected squinter of a line. FX for you!

 

[treetrunks]

Sorry Millie, it might not be yet.
It's such a let down if it is and im totally resigned to seeing AF even if I get BFPs. But im not giving up.
Unless im too old I will keep hope.
Hugs xxx

 

[MoominGirl]

Oh I'm sorry Millie . What is your next plan? I wish I could help in some way this is just so unfair.

I'm not trying anymore, I've got a few cheapies left but I'm throwing them in the bin.
We will give our frozen embryo a go but that's it. I'm just done now I can't keep doing this

I'm so sorry. Sending virtual hugs as I know there's nothing I can say that will make this better

 

[Pidgeridoo]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

 

[xMillie]

Sorry Millie, it might not be yet.
It's such a let down if it is and im totally resigned to seeing AF even if I get BFPs. But im not giving up.
Unless im too old I will keep hope.
Hugs xxx

I know
It's rubbish if you've had losses cause you never know if the next is actually gonna stick

I have 1 frer left, I don't know if I should use it tomorrow (14dpo) or just accept that I'm out?
Still getting pinky/orangy cm but it does look like what I sometimes get at start of af.. so it's probably that


Does anyone else here hate Christmas?
Every year it's the same no one ever visits us
I know it would be the opposite if we had children..
Our parents facebooks are full of their grandchildren receiving their gifts
our house is always so empty and sad
Can't ever go to anyone else's though because we have our cat
I'm dreading it again

 

[xMillie]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

 

[Pidgeridoo]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

 

[_GG_]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

The relaxed approach is definitely the way to go. I'm glad I did the early testing because it felt reassuring to know that sperm and egg were meeting and at least starting to implant so that means in fertility sense, it could be something really minor that will help, like extra progesterone.
I took a month off after the 3rd chemical, missed the boat in the next and caught on the next cycle, oy dtd once, the night before a pos opk. Being more relaxed definitely helped. I kind of accepted that it may not work so just let everything happen and took a little break off here to take my mind off it all. I still checked in occasionally, but nowhere near as much. It could be total coincidence but so many women seem to fall pregnant when they just stop trying or worrying...there must be something in it.

 

[Pidgeridoo]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

The relaxed approach is definitely the way to go. I'm glad I did the early testing because it felt reassuring to know that sperm and egg were meeting and at least starting to implant so that means in fertility sense, it could be something really minor that will help, like extra progesterone.
I took a month off after the 3rd chemical, missed the boat in the next and caught on the next cycle, oy dtd once, the night before a pos opk. Being more relaxed definitely helped. I kind of accepted that it may not work so just let everything happen and took a little break off here to take my mind off it all. I still checked in occasionally, but nowhere near as much. It could be total coincidence but so many women seem to fall pregnant when they just stop trying or worrying...there must be something in it.

Yes I'm definitely taking a bit of step back on the active crazy ttc front! I don't want every moment of my day to be eaten up with trying anymore! I am concerned about just how many chemicals I could have had though, I am certain I just didn't happen to notice at the first one I do need to focus on the positive of we are able to get pregnant and hopefully the clinic will be able to make us stay pregnant

 

[_GG_]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

The relaxed approach is definitely the way to go. I'm glad I did the early testing because it felt reassuring to know that sperm and egg were meeting and at least starting to implant so that means in fertility sense, it could be something really minor that will help, like extra progesterone.
I took a month off after the 3rd chemical, missed the boat in the next and caught on the next cycle, oy dtd once, the night before a pos opk. Being more relaxed definitely helped. I kind of accepted that it may not work so just let everything happen and took a little break off here to take my mind off it all. I still checked in occasionally, but nowhere near as much. It could be total coincidence but so many women seem to fall pregnant when they just stop trying or worrying...there must be something in it.

Yes I'm definitely taking a bit of step back on the active crazy ttc front! I don't want every moment of my day to be eaten up with trying anymore! I am concerned about just how many chemicals I could have had though, I am certain I just didn't happen to notice at the first one I do need to focus on the positive of we are able to get pregnant and hopefully the clinic will be able to make us stay pregnant

Think back at how many you believe you might have had and let your gp/clinic know.

I got a referral for recurrent miscarriage due to 3 chemicals and a loss at 14 weeks, years ago. It'll help them to know.

Fx for you xxx

 

[_GG_]

Millie, I am so sorry you're feeling this way, it's all just so bloody unfair.

Huge hugs and I hope af stays away. I've had orangey cm and it's just been tje pregnacare xxx

 

[Alexis2017]

Sorry Pidge I was rooting for you. I guess your right that you know you can get pregnant. I have only tested early once so never had a 2nd line. Just keep on trying hunni thats all we can do. Hope your okay x

 

[Melly41]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

The relaxed approach is definitely the way to go. I'm glad I did the early testing because it felt reassuring to know that sperm and egg were meeting and at least starting to implant so that means in fertility sense, it could be something really minor that will help, like extra progesterone.
I took a month off after the 3rd chemical, missed the boat in the next and caught on the next cycle, oy dtd once, the night before a pos opk. Being more relaxed definitely helped. I kind of accepted that it may not work so just let everything happen and took a little break off here to take my mind off it all. I still checked in occasionally, but nowhere near as much. It could be total coincidence but so many women seem to fall pregnant when they just stop trying or worrying...there must be something in it.

Hi ladies.....just to add i got bfp within a few months of stopping to ttc! In fact we were actively avoiding it as made devision it was unlikely yo happen. Had a slip up on holiday and pow...got bfp! Was really happy and altho ended having a mmc in sept, im now excited to ttc again. Good luck everyone testing this month x

 

[treetrunks]

Sorry to hear that Pidge, its the only thing with early testing. But I can never resist, it is disappointing to find out its a chemical / early loss but I like to know anyway. I thought I should stop testing early but im sure I wont.
I can tell with my blood loss also, the months I conceive I lose clots and the one's I dont I have a steady period.
Xxx

 

[LuckyLaura]

Had some pink when wiping so I'm pretty sure I'm out

I'm done trying

I'm so sorry to hear this big hugs and fx it doesn't become af xx

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[LuckyLaura]

Sorry for no update, I had to take a bit of time off just The witch arrived on time so I'm guessing maybe a Chemical? How cruel Anyway no more early testing for me, I don't think I want to know in future! It has also made me worry about how many chemicals I have had, I have only started testing early since this summer and although this is the first cycle I have got lines we have been trying for two years so who knows? We have our first fertility clinic appointment on the 14th of December so I'm going to focus on that. I'm also focusing on the positive of we CAN get pregnant which I feel will mean that the clinic will definitely help us reach our sticky BFP! Thanks for all the support guys, you really are a great bunch!

Sorry xx
Early testing is torture, why do we do this to ourselves

This is definitely my lesson learned in a horrible way! No more early testing for me, I don't think I'm even going to track anymore tbh! We didn't track this month and although it hasn't ended well it does look like the sperm met the egg! So I think the relaxed approach is the way forward for me and just wait and see what happens at our first appointment

Aww no I'm genuinely gutted for you! I was so hopeful. Big hugssss hope u are feeling okay xx

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