Hi everyone, I'm 6 weeks pregnant. I've been with the dad on and off for the last 7 years. We bought a house together last year but he's not yet moved in. Basically he has depression so we decided he would "transition" into living in our new place. Only thing is it hasn't happened. He was meant to be moving in last week. Again it hasn't happened. This week he guessed correctly that I was pregnant. I had been waiting till I was further all g to tell him because of previous MCs. The MCs were his too. I'm now very confused. When he heard I was pregnant he said something like "great my life is over". He proceeded to drink a fair bit that night, but he also put his arm round me and stroked my head and stuff so I thought I was just an initial shock reaction (he can be a bit of a drama queen). Anyway, it's now nearly a week later. He told me today that he doesn't want us to be a unit and that he doesn't want a baby so that we can be a family. This was in response to me saying what I wanted. He said that we had in fact broken up and that I didn't credit anything he said. I don't know what he means. We have talked about how things are a bit weird, but it's always been related back to his depression. Recently I have been saying that in spite of his depression he could still move in and things can progress. I suggested that we just got on and lived instead of talking about marriage and kids, so just see what came along. He knew I wasn't on birth control and that I could get pregnant. I'm so confused because I thought he wanted us to get pregnant. Now I don't know what to do. I feel maybe I've just made a whole lot up in my head. But at the same time I know I am a rational intelligent person. I will talk it through with him, but I am bricking myself that he will continue to say we are over. I know he has parent issues and is worried that he might not be a good dad, and he's still on anti-depressants. But maybe he really means it. So, what do I do? I have a good job and a house so I am capable (with a lot of hard work) of bringing a baby up by myself. But, should I bring a baby into the world when it's father doesn't want it? I'm in my late 30s so I feel that having this baby is one of my last chances. I seriously don't know what to do next. [edited as per forum rules] Plus being a single mum is likely to curtail my romantic options. I know I probably sound selfish but I am filled with so many emotions right now and just need to get them out. If any of you have any suggestions, advice, words of support, anything, I am all ears. Thank you so much. I hate that such a happy time is being made so bitter.