ave you asked your mum how her labours were, i only ask because i have labours like my mum and they ar called silent labours, in other words you dont feel 1st stage midwife could feel my contractions and monitor was saying i was having them but i couldn't feel a thing luckily i was in hospital because my waters have broke, all my labours have been the same since and they take me in and induce me early now so i dont have it whenever i feel the pains shopping or anywhere liek that. i dont mean to scare you but i would definately stay at your mums tonight with what they are saying to you, i no its very rare to have these kind of labours but really if possible stay at your mums