** May 2019 Testing Thread **

[Sugarpop]

Wow. Helpful.

I only recently deleted the email. I’ll see if I can find it.

 

[Sjf0709]

Morning ladies- ugh I think I’m just getting loads of evaps. Have to be as the line should surely be much darker.

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Sorry hun I think I agree, it would be darker by now. I think it’s an evap xx

 

[louise_c]

I don’t like frer at all so won’t buy them now. I’m waiting to see when I ovulate so I know my test date is. Af been between 29 and 35 days since I started the exercising and eating better

 

[Lollypop79]

Such a tough few days. What would have been my due date is tomorrow 8th may. I am utterly heartbroken that I’m not pregnant again. I can’t stop crying at the mo. To top it off I’ve had 2 friends give birth today and social media is full of them as we have so many mutual friends. I’ve deactivated Facebook as I can’t cope with it all. (I’m happy for them but it’s too painful) I’m envious too. I don’t like these emotions I’m usually a nice calm person.
The royal baby coverage has well and truly just topped it all off. Fed up and just venting ladies x

 

[Oliviasmommy]

Can you add me to the 27th please?

 

[Oliviasmommy]

Such a tough few days. What would have been my due date is tomorrow 8th may. I am utterly heartbroken that I’m not pregnant again. I can’t stop crying at the mo. To top it off I’ve had 2 friends give birth today and social media is full of them as we have so many mutual friends. I’ve deactivated Facebook as I can’t cope with it all. (I’m happy for them but it’s too painful) I’m envious too. I don’t like these emotions I’m usually a nice calm person.
The royal baby coverage has well and truly just topped it all off. Fed up and just venting ladies x

This is only my second month trying but I’ve seen your post and where you’re kind of at with your journey and I am definitely praying it’ll work out for you!

 

[SugaryIris]

Such a tough few days. What would have been my due date is tomorrow 8th may. I am utterly heartbroken that I’m not pregnant again. I can’t stop crying at the mo. To top it off I’ve had 2 friends give birth today and social media is full of them as we have so many mutual friends. I’ve deactivated Facebook as I can’t cope with it all. (I’m happy for them but it’s too painful) I’m envious too. I don’t like these emotions I’m usually a nice calm person.
The royal baby coverage has well and truly just topped it all off. Fed up and just venting ladies x

Oh Lolly, I’m sorry. Take care of yourself. Xx

 

[Sjf0709]

Such a tough few days. What would have been my due date is tomorrow 8th may. I am utterly heartbroken that I’m not pregnant again. I can’t stop crying at the mo. To top it off I’ve had 2 friends give birth today and social media is full of them as we have so many mutual friends. I’ve deactivated Facebook as I can’t cope with it all. (I’m happy for them but it’s too painful) I’m envious too. I don’t like these emotions I’m usually a nice calm person.
The royal baby coverage has well and truly just topped it all off. Fed up and just venting ladies x

Oh hun, I completely understand. 30th March should have been my due date and it was mother’s day weekend which just rubbed it in even further but it turns out, that’s the weekend we conceived our BFP!! Everything happens for a reason, even if it’s not obvious now... I really struggled around when my due date should have been so if you need me I’m here for you if you want a chat xxx

 

[Lollypop79]

This is only my second month trying but I’ve seen your post and where you’re kind of at with your journey and I am definitely praying it’ll work out for you!

Thank you that’s lovely of you to say. Wishing you lots of luck x

 

[Lollypop79]

Oh hun, I completely understand. 30th March should have been my due date and it was mother’s day weekend which just rubbed it in even further but it turns out, that’s the weekend we conceived our BFP!! Everything happens for a reason, even if it’s not obvious now... I really struggled around when my due date should have been so if you need me I’m here for you if you want a chat xxx

AW thank you so much. That means a lot to me. I knew it would be tough but it’s really hit me and surprised me. I remember you having a tough time on Mother’s Day. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. I’m not giving up but wow it’s tough. I hope I get some luck this month. Hope we all do x

 

[Lollypop79]

Oh Lolly, I’m sorry. Take care of yourself. Xx

Thank you. I’m taking it easy over next day or so my oh is being great. He is struggling too but doesn’t show his emotions bless him x

 

[Sjf0709]

AW thank you so much. That means a lot to me. I knew it would be tough but it’s really hit me and surprised me. I remember you having a tough time on Mother’s Day. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. I’m not giving up but wow it’s tough. I hope I get some luck this month. Hope we all do x

Wishing you all the luck in the world hun

 

[soffphie]

i decided to book a drs appointment today about my anxiety. its quite ridiculous.. every day i am worrying etc to a pretty massive degree about anything & everything ive found myself hiding away from people incase they say something that triggers it off.
i hope it wont impact the way they see me for fertility testing but tbh i cant keep living every day with severe worrying. all i think exadurated/bought on/heightened by infertility

 

[SugaryIris]

i decided to book a drs appointment today about my anxiety. its quite ridiculous.. every day i am worrying etc to a pretty massive degree about anything & everything ive found myself hiding away from people incase they say something that triggers it off.
i hope it wont impact the way they see me for fertility testing but tbh i cant keep living every day with severe worrying. all i think exadurated/bought on/heightened by infertility

I hope you get some help hun. Most fertility centres have counsellors etc that can help you deal with anything specific to ttc so don’t worry about it affecting any treatments.

Have you tried things you can do at home? Like meditation, yoga, exercise or a relaxing bath? X

 

[Alexis2017]

Such a tough few days. What would have been my due date is tomorrow 8th may. I am utterly heartbroken that I’m not pregnant again. I can’t stop crying at the mo. To top it off I’ve had 2 friends give birth today and social media is full of them as we have so many mutual friends. I’ve deactivated Facebook as I can’t cope with it all. (I’m happy for them but it’s too painful) I’m envious too. I don’t like these emotions I’m usually a nice calm person.
The royal baby coverage has well and truly just topped it all off. Fed up and just venting ladies x

Try and focus on your beautiful babies you have and remember this is just temporary and your time will come

I just hope I get to be a mum like you are. You have got to keep hope alive anf keep going.

 

[soffphie]

I hope you get some help hun. Most fertility centres have counsellors etc that can help you deal with anything specific to ttc so don’t worry about it affecting any treatments.

Have you tried things you can do at home? Like meditation, yoga, exercise or a relaxing bath? X

Its v hard to explain sugar. Tbh atm n

I hope you get some help hun. Most fertility centres have counsellors etc that can help you deal with anything specific to ttc so don’t worry about it affecting any treatments.

Have you tried things you can do at home? Like meditation, yoga, exercise or a relaxing bath? X

Its v hard to explain sugar but atm it isnt isnt even massively worries over ttc its everything in future future.. feeling sick with worry about how we will live on a pension (i mean ffs seriously!!) About the house, hating the house as well as loving it all mixed in.. its just anything and everything and once my minds on something to worry about i just seriously cannot switch it off. I do believe ttc has bought it all back out as i had this a few years back as well. Like i said ive always had anxiety but a couple years ago everything wos amazing and life was about to begin and be perfect and then suddenly i cant concieve.
I always wanna go out do things, be away from house. Its really weird

 

[Sjf0709]

Its v hard to explain sugar. Tbh atm n


Its v hard to explain sugar but atm it isnt isnt even massively worries over ttc its everything in future future.. feeling sick with worry about how we will live on a pension (i mean ffs seriously!!) About the house, hating the house as well as loving it all mixed in.. its just anything and everything and once my minds on something to worry about i just seriously cannot switch it off. I do believe ttc has bought it all back out as i had this a few years back as well. Like i said ive always had anxiety but a couple years ago everything wos amazing and life was about to begin and be perfect and then suddenly i cant concieve.
I always wanna go out do things, be away from house. Its really weird

What area do you live in hun? I’m in the NW and I know you can self refer to mental health services in my area without the need of asking your GP for a referral.

Also, try googling ‘worry tree’ there’s some useful diagrams for you to look at and work through your worries with xx

 

[SugaryIris]

Its v hard to explain sugar. Tbh atm n


Its v hard to explain sugar but atm it isnt isnt even massively worries over ttc its everything in future future.. feeling sick with worry about how we will live on a pension (i mean ffs seriously!!) About the house, hating the house as well as loving it all mixed in.. its just anything and everything and once my minds on something to worry about i just seriously cannot switch it off. I do believe ttc has bought it all back out as i had this a few years back as well. Like i said ive always had anxiety but a couple years ago everything wos amazing and life was about to begin and be perfect and then suddenly i cant concieve.
I always wanna go out do things, be away from house. Its really weird

Oh hun, that does sound overwhelming, I’m not surprised you are struggling. You are clearly a very strong woman going through a tough time so give yourself some credit.

If you need anything, even if just a chat or vent then let me know xx

 

[soffphie]

What area do you live in hun? I’m in the NW and I know you can self refer to mental health services in my area without the need of asking your GP for a referral.

Also, try googling ‘worry tree’ there’s some useful diagrams for you to look at and work through your worries with xx

im south east. and no they wont just let me self refer i have asked again little bit of post code lotto as a i know someone further up who has been able to do just this

 

[Rainbow1234]

I’m 8dpo today. Definitely think this is the worst part of the tww, when you’ve already waited a week and it’s still too early to test. I’m not waiting until 14dpo, I’ll wait until sat when I’ll be 11dpo unless I get a huge temp drop then I’ll just not bother x