Reminds of the time I went for a sexual healthy screen - in a waiting room of girls with 3 female doctors, 1 man - guess who got the man??? he was was really charming and good looking and he kept leaning over and patting my knee - I was so embarrassed having to tell him my sexual history then strip off and get my bits out for him!! I wouldn't be dead against a male midwife, but I think I'd relax more around a woman! x