**** july mummies 2018 *****

[Shanivy]

KHTW I swore blind that co sleeping was dangerous and irresponsible and I'd never do it. Ha. Well we just got Dd into her own room and out of our bed when she turned 3. She sleeps fine now and right through. But comes into my bed still around 5am when she wakes and sleeps until she gets up for nursery. I actually love her in my bed. Especially when dd leaves at 4am two weeks a month. So that'll probably have to change when the baby is here.

Like you , I have OH off for 2 weeks, he might try taking 2 weeks holiday to get 4. And my mum might be coming over too. July means dd will be off for the summer so I won't have to worry trying to get us all out in the morning for a few months.

Honestly my world revolves around dd. I'm finding it strange (not in a bad way tho) having to split time. I'm worried how she'll find it. And I've forgotten how much work and time newborns need lol xx

 

[KHTW]

KHTW I swore blind that co sleeping was dangerous and irresponsible and I'd never do it. Ha. Well we just got Dd into her own room and out of our bed when she turned 3. She sleeps fine now and right through. But comes into my bed still around 5am when she wakes and sleeps until she gets up for nursery. I actually love her in my bed. Especially when dd leaves at 4am two weeks a month. So that'll probably have to change when the baby is here.

Like you , I have OH off for 2 weeks, he might try taking 2 weeks holiday to get 4. And my mum might be coming over too. July means dd will be off for the summer so I won't have to worry trying to get us all out in the morning for a few months.

Honestly my world revolves around dd. I'm finding it strange (not in a bad way tho) having to split time. I'm worried how she'll find it. And I've forgotten how much work and time newborns need lol xx

I'd never thought that we would co-sleep but it just worked for us. DD is very affectionate and cuddly little person and she just loves having us next to her at night. I love that too. BUT saying that I am ready for her to sleep alone, not sure she it tho.

Yes, it will be tough on our DDs but only for a little while. I am sure they will come to love 'their' little babies xx

 

[Shepherdess]

I totally understand you ladies worried about how it'll be with 2. my little girl isn't the type that entertains herself which can be quite hard work at times and I'm so so worried she'll feel left out when I have to spend so much time breastfeeding a newborn. although theres still ages yet so I am trying to encourage her play by herself a bit now and not always have me 100%

 

[KHTW]

I totally understand you ladies worried about how it'll be with 2. my little girl isn't the type that entertains herself which can be quite hard work at times and I'm so so worried she'll feel left out when I have to spend so much time breastfeeding a newborn. although theres still ages yet so I am trying to encourage her play by herself a bit now and not always have me 100%

Fingers cross it all works out. The little people can adapt pretty well and I guess the new baby will become part of the 'routine' sooner or later. Let us hope it'll be sooner

 

[Shanivy]

I totally understand you ladies worried about how it'll be with 2. my little girl isn't the type that entertains herself which can be quite hard work at times and I'm so so worried she'll feel left out when I have to spend so much time breastfeeding a newborn. although theres still ages yet so I am trying to encourage her play by herself a bit now and not always have me 100%

Shepherdess totally agree on the breastfeeding. It takes so long to establish. With the 1st it's just you and them and time.

Dd didn't play by herself until she turned 3 but if I'm there or OH she wants us to play. I'm hoping that just making her get involved and helping do things for the baby will ease the process for her. Still worried about splitting my time though, she's a complete mummy's girl. Xx

 

[KHTW]

Shiiiiit! I think DD has hand, foot and mouth disease... more spots appearing now. So it wasn't molars after all!

 

[Shanivy]

More spots? I must have missed when you mentioned the spots the first time
Where are the spots?

Could be chickenpox If not hand foot and mouth. How's her temp? Xx

 

[KHTW]

More spots? I must have missed when you mentioned the spots the first time
Where are the spots?

Could be chickenpox If not hand foot and mouth. How's her temp? Xx

There was a few spots on her chin but i thought that could be from teething drool + dummy. When changing her yesterday I found a big red spot on her leg and OH says there is another on her ear and she complains of sore mouth... no temp yesterday or today, only saturday... poor thing

 

[kelly30]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

 

[JemRose]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

Kelly that's awful, I can't even begin to imagine how you're feeling. lots of love xxx

 

[KHTW]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

Honey, I am really, really sorry. I know there is not much else one can say... Sending hugs xx

 

[Shanivy]

More spots? I must have missed when you mentioned the spots the first time
Where are the spots?

Could be chickenpox If not hand foot and mouth. How's her temp? Xx

There was a few spots on her chin but i thought that could be from teething drool + dummy. When changing her yesterday I found a big red spot on her leg and OH says there is another on her ear and she complains of sore mouth... no temp yesterday or today, only saturday... poor thing

At least the temp is gone. Does sound like something though I thought hand foot and mouth was usually feet, hands, tongue, mouth first. Poor wee thing hopefully it's neither xx

 

[_GG_]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

Kelly, I am so sorry. I know words can't make you feel better so have a virtual hug instead and remember...it doesn't mean it won't happen...it just wasn't right this time. Knowing you can conceive is half the battle won. The rest will be conquered eventually and I hope it's sooner rather than later xx

 

[Shanivy]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

Aw no I'm so sorry Kelly. I was thinking about you hoping it was nothing. It's happened to me and I know there's nothing I can say to make you feel even a little better. Take care of yourself for now hun xxxxxx

 

[kelly30]

Thank you ladies just keep crying....I pull myself together and think I’ve been here before and will get through this and then I start crying again. Thank you for your kind words ladies xxx

 

[Shanivy]

Thank you ladies just keep crying....I pull myself together and think I’ve been here before and will get through this and then I start crying again. Thank you for your kind words ladies xxx

I don't have any words Kelly. You *will* get through this. Being here before doesn't make it any easier. It just wasn't the time, remember it's nothing you did or could have done. Take all the time you need and grieve as long as you need to. Give that wonderful daughter of yours a hug. We're here if you need to chat xxx

 

[PeanutButter]

Awh I'm sorry Kelly it's absolutely heartbreaking isn't it. Sending you hugs. Are you going to see Dr? X

 

[_GG_]

Kh...sorry to hear about the spots.

 

[Shepherdess]

It’s confirmed ladies I took another test and no line so I’ve had another miscarriage I’m so upset.
I wish all you lovely ladies a happy and healthy 9 month journey.
Jemrose hope everything works out for you I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you big hugs xxxx

I'm so so sorry

 

[Shanivy]

Think my hormones are kicking in. My Dd got her orange belt at karate today and I started crying like an idiot