kayelljay
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So I'm only 5 weeks (BFP last week) so it's going to be a while until we tell anyone, but I'm really worried about how to tell my friend/work colleague.
She has been TTC for just under 2years now, shes now going through IVF testing, but they have recently found out that her husband's sperm is basically non-existent They are thinking of using a sperm donor but it's not going to be until early 2017 before they can start that process.
I have been the person she has been able to talk to at work and she often gets very upset/angry every time someone announces a pregnancy (including family members) and she makes little remarks about people getting pregnant. I completely understand why she is angry/upset and I can't imagine what she is going through right now, but it makes me worry when I think about telling her about my pregnancy as I don't want to upset her. She doesn't know we were TTC. She is starting counselling with her husband in a few weeks so maybe that will help her a bit, but I'm worried about her
Does anyone have any advice?
She has been TTC for just under 2years now, shes now going through IVF testing, but they have recently found out that her husband's sperm is basically non-existent They are thinking of using a sperm donor but it's not going to be until early 2017 before they can start that process.
I have been the person she has been able to talk to at work and she often gets very upset/angry every time someone announces a pregnancy (including family members) and she makes little remarks about people getting pregnant. I completely understand why she is angry/upset and I can't imagine what she is going through right now, but it makes me worry when I think about telling her about my pregnancy as I don't want to upset her. She doesn't know we were TTC. She is starting counselling with her husband in a few weeks so maybe that will help her a bit, but I'm worried about her
Does anyone have any advice?