So I'm only 5 weeks (BFP last week) so it's going to be a while until we tell anyone, but I'm really worried about how to tell my friend/work colleague. She has been TTC for just under 2years now, shes now going through IVF testing, but they have recently found out that her husband's sperm is basically non-existent They are thinking of using a sperm donor but it's not going to be until early 2017 before they can start that process. I have been the person she has been able to talk to at work and she often gets very upset/angry every time someone announces a pregnancy (including family members) and she makes little remarks about people getting pregnant. I completely understand why she is angry/upset and I can't imagine what she is going through right now, but it makes me worry when I think about telling her about my pregnancy as I don't want to upset her. She doesn't know we were TTC. She is starting counselling with her husband in a few weeks so maybe that will help her a bit, but I'm worried about her Does anyone have any advice?