Found out sex today, not sure whether to tell my good friend??

[vixxie77]

We found out we're having another girl today so happy!

My good friend had a MMC last week and had removal operation on thursday, so is obviously very sensitive at the moment.

I really want to tell her our news, but don't want to upset her, also don't want her to be upset that I didn't tell her?? She's lovely and would be really happy for us, but I know it would be bitter sweet x x

 

[Jayjay027]

Ur poor friend. She must be going through an awful time.

I'd tell her if she asks, but don't mention it if she doesn't ask.
You can tell her in a few weeks when her ordeal isn't quite so raw. I'm sure she'd still be delighted for u, but it would probably be very hard for her to hear any pregnancy news atm.

Best of luck x

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[vixxie77]

Ur poor friend. She must be going through an awful time.

I'd tell her if she asks, but don't mention it if she doesn't ask.
You can tell her in a few weeks when her ordeal isn't quite so raw. I'm sure she'd still be delighted for u, but it would probably be very hard for her to hear any pregnancy news atm.

Best of luck x

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Thanks jayjay, thought it would probably be best to wait a while.

Its terrible and its her second mmc since August too, feel so sorry for her x x

 

[Tara1985]

Poor girl I would do what Jay suggests, of course she would be happy for you but at the moment it will be too raw for her. xx

 

[Loula]

im sure the right tim wil come around x

 

[GoldenDragon]

I would leave it a while, the right time will come to tell her xxx