How NOT to pressure OH??

[Cay84]

Help!!! Positive OPK this morning (been testing AM and PM).

Waiting for OH to get home from work so we can BD but I can feel a "I don't want to feel pressured" coming on. We've BD'd alternate days for last the week (last day Sunday) which would have been fine if I had got a +ve OPK when i expected it!

He's not got the biggest libido and now I'm worried I've 'overworked' him over the last week and he won't want to BD now!! I was looking at SMEP but he would never manage a few days in a row!

Any ideas???

Cay xx

 

[netty]

get your self looking all sexy and nice and just jump him! h cant complain once you are on it

 

[SarahLouB]

Just pretend you are not interested today and then walk around the house in sexy underwear! Aren't woman supposed to give off some sexy pheromones or something when they are ovulating anyway???

 

[Cay84]

I'm normally pretty confident, when i want it i get it but I turn into acne woman and feel gross around O time! Off in to town for new sexy undies and a skip full of concealer! Then i will jump him as advised lol guess you don't get if you don't ask eh? Cheers ladies! xx

 

[netty]

just offer up oral sex and then sit on it! always works with my OH he doesnt know whats happened till i am ridinghim like seabiscuit! I WILL get my lil spermies

 

[Cay84]

Hahahahhahaha love it, and definitely what I'll be doing!!!!

 

[SarahLouB]

hahaha Lynette that is so funny! Just made me LOL and now everyone at work is looking at me suspiciously

 

[Titch85]

I'm normally pretty confident, when i want it i get it but I turn into acne woman and feel gross around O time!

I am due to ovulate this week and I too have a face full of spots, never thought about the two being connected until you mentioned it!

 

[Kiki0210]

hahaha Lynette that is so funny! Just made me LOL and now everyone at work is looking at me suspiciously

Me too!! Is it bad that we're not working?!!

 

[Cay84]

I'm normally pretty confident, when i want it i get it but I turn into acne woman and feel gross around O time!

I am due to ovulate this week and I too have a face full of spots, never thought about the two being connected until you mentioned it!

It's horrible, nothing helps either, I've tried all sorts of face cleansers and they still just sit there looking ugly! I get really moody too, but seem to be alright on run up to af. Not a good time to be trying to make babies, i turn into a horny shrek lol

 

[liz_milne]

I agree........cook him a nice tea, wear something sexy and just **have it**. lol.

after all this is the most important time to BD isn't it lol

good luck and keep us posted (not too much details).

Can totally sympathise with low libido. My OH is 20 years older than me and he is the same, but I don't like pressuring him cos his age lol. i would have it every day if I could but not him! We normally manage 1, somtimes 2 times a week, but it's gone off the radar just now cos we are only bding in the first 2 weeks of cycle, so sometimes just once before ovulating! Then i don't want it now in the 2ww, just in case! So I'm in between a rock and a hard place (literally!) lol

liz xxx

 

[Titch85]

I agree........cook him a nice tea, wear something sexy and just **have it**. lol.

after all this is the most important time to BD isn't it lol

good luck and keep us posted (not too much details).

Can totally sympathise with low libido. My OH is 20 years older than me and he is the same, but I don't like pressuring him cos his age lol. i would have it every day if I could but not him! We normally manage 1, somtimes 2 times a week, but it's gone off the radar just now cos we are only bding in the first 2 weeks of cycle, so sometimes just once before ovulating! Then i don't want it now in the 2ww, just in case! So I'm in between a rock and a hard place (literally!) lol

liz xxx

Other way round for us, I have zero sex drive and would happily have it only once a year lol. OH is loving this TTC malarkey!

 

[CARNAT22]

One month I threatened to tie OH to the bed (not in a good way either) as he decided to go out the evening I'd got my + OPK!!

I was in tears, begged him to sex me quickly beforehand, I shouted at him and accused him of ruining my chances of getting pregnant. We did have sex but needless to say it wasn't very loving and we didn't catch that cycle

It's horrible to think how crazy I actually got.

The underwear / seduction idea is much better!

xxxxxxxxx

 

[babyfever]

just offer up oral sex and then sit on it! always works with my OH he doesnt know whats happened till i am ridinghim like seabiscuit! I WILL get my lil spermies

oh yes this approach usually works for me too!!! LOL

 

[Cay84]

I agree........cook him a nice tea, wear something sexy and just **have it**. lol.

after all this is the most important time to BD isn't it lol

good luck and keep us posted (not too much details).

Can totally sympathise with low libido. My OH is 20 years older than me and he is the same, but I don't like pressuring him cos his age lol. i would have it every day if I could but not him! We normally manage 1, somtimes 2 times a week, but it's gone off the radar just now cos we are only bding in the first 2 weeks of cycle, so sometimes just once before ovulating! Then i don't want it now in the 2ww, just in case! So I'm in between a rock and a hard place (literally!) lol

liz xxx

There's 14 years between us and I think ive won the lottery if I get it twice a week! He's come home grumbling about a bad day now.... thinking of offering a sympathetic 'this will help you relax' blow job and then pouncing as lynette so nicely put earlier lol... xx

 

[3Beloved]

I love lynettes answer . That made LOL literally. I just tease espeically when his addicted to his xbox controller at night i just give a little teasing and when he gets interested just act innocent and tease again that usually works for me . GL Bding!! X

 

[Cay84]

Mission accomplished!!!! The lynette method works a treat! Let the 2ww commence! Thanks ladies

 

[Doob]

pmsl congratulations

 

[JJ Mum]

Mission accomplished!!!! The lynette method works a treat! Let the 2ww commence! Thanks ladies

Yayyy well done - the things you have to do to get pregnant!

Lynette - you made me laugh big time, it was the ride him like seabiscuit! ha ha

 

[netty]

for you getting some schlonging action! Oral sex promises always work, i only lick it a couple of times then get on it........my excuse? saliva isnt good for sperm