I trust him 100%. I don't worry about it, if he does he does, no amount of worrying about it would stop it anyway. I was fine before I met him and would be fine without him. I do love him though and obviously would not be happy but know I'm quite capable of coping on my own.
How Much Do You Trust Your O/H?
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HollyHobby
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trust him totally on things that matter, but like ask him to pick me up such and such and i dont trust him to remember!
I trust my OH 100%... I know he loves me and he has stood by me through so much. I still get insecure though, mostly because my ex was a nasty piece of work and basically knocked any confidence he could find right out of me.
I don't know where I would be without him
I don't know where I would be without him
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do u mean trust as in being faithful? or in general? in general i trust him COMPLETELY. i trust him to make decisions for me in my best interest, i trust him to keep me happy, safe, loved, protected, defended, etc.
sex-wise. as in being faithful / not cheating on me- i trust my boyf. i get niggling doubts sometimes, like when he goes on stag do's to amsterdam and tells me all the other guys (married, kids, even the groom- well, ESPECIALLY the groom) all fucked loads of prostitutes etc and defends them saying "oh it dont mean they dont love their wives and kids- it means nothing, it doesnt count etc etc" i think to myself "if they all did it how come u didnt?" but i tell myself thats just me being insecure.
i used to say i'd leave him, but now im just too much in love with him and we got millie now etc i know it wouldnt be that easy.
BUT, coz i am kind of insecure, i KNOW that i wouldnt be able to forgive him, no matter how much i WANTED to. i would bring it up in EVERY tiff we had, he would be forever indebted to me in my eyes, which just isnt fair on him! if u gonna forgive then forgive 100%, u cant say u gonna forgive then hang it over their heads for ever. and i know i would, despite my greatest efforts, so iv told him this and said look if it ever happens u better hide it meticulously, coz if i found out its over, even if i dont want it to be! if that makes sense, lol
sex-wise. as in being faithful / not cheating on me- i trust my boyf. i get niggling doubts sometimes, like when he goes on stag do's to amsterdam and tells me all the other guys (married, kids, even the groom- well, ESPECIALLY the groom) all fucked loads of prostitutes etc and defends them saying "oh it dont mean they dont love their wives and kids- it means nothing, it doesnt count etc etc" i think to myself "if they all did it how come u didnt?" but i tell myself thats just me being insecure.
i used to say i'd leave him, but now im just too much in love with him and we got millie now etc i know it wouldnt be that easy.
BUT, coz i am kind of insecure, i KNOW that i wouldnt be able to forgive him, no matter how much i WANTED to. i would bring it up in EVERY tiff we had, he would be forever indebted to me in my eyes, which just isnt fair on him! if u gonna forgive then forgive 100%, u cant say u gonna forgive then hang it over their heads for ever. and i know i would, despite my greatest efforts, so iv told him this and said look if it ever happens u better hide it meticulously, coz if i found out its over, even if i dont want it to be! if that makes sense, lol
