How long before you voice your opinion?

[Jayceesmumma]

Yes because she PMed me as such. Yes I am sure Keely as it was you kidda.

People who join and never post are usually called lurkers. Forums I think are so much better than other sites such as LIM because you do get to know people rather than them just being another profile but if they don't join in then you don't. You can read threads here without being a member I thought. No point in joining if you aren't interesting in contributing, just my opinion.

Again, its clear you have a few issues with members hun.. and im not the only one who sees it. Maybe just be clear rather than beating around the bush as im sure alot of people have no idea what the hell your on about!
(and yes, im aware i said 'alot')

 

[Keely]

(and yes, im aware i said 'alot')

 

[Jayceesmumma]

http://dictionary.reference.com/help/fa ... e/s49.html
A nicer link for your signature hun.. if you must.

 

[beanie]

Why is it people complain about this place being bitchy and then bitch????

If you have issues with LondenerClare could you PLEASE PM her or one of the mods as all that will happen is that yet another thread will have to be deleted.

 

[missac]

http://dictionary.reference.com/help/faq/language/s49.html
A nicer link for your signature hun.. if you must.

I think that is a much more appropriate signature LC.

 

[Londoner Claire]

Why bother? Even if anyone does bother to click it, they'll still make the same mistake!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Why is it people complain about this place being bitchy and then bitch????

If you have issues with LondenerClare could you PLEASE PM her or one of the mods as all that will happen is that yet another thread will have to be deleted.

Hun, thats the point i was trying to get across too! (if ur aiming at me)

And i havent seen the mods online for a while.. starting to worry about laura..hope shes ok!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Why bother? Even if anyone does bother to click it, they'll still make the same mistake!

Does it really matter?

 

[beanie]

If you have an issue with a particular, then the best way is PM as i have a feeling this thread is going to escalate!

I know you said it but to be fair you then went on to have a go at LondenerClare, which could have been done via PM??

Urchin is on her hols, back tomorrow, laura is fine and Suz is online often.

As for the original point I am all for people putting across their opinion but whilst you have the freedom of speech others have the freedom to be who they want to be without being ridiculed for it. I have seen lots of posts with negative and derogatory terms and some that are just down right bitchy. This is a public forum and as such you should remember that you don't knopw what effect your words could have on another person. Speak your mind by all means but remember respect works both ways.

 

[Jayceesmumma]

If you have an issue with a particular, then the best way is PM as i have a feeling this thread is going to escalate!

I know you said it but to be fair you then went on to have a go at LondenerClare, which could have been done via PM??
.

i know, it was the link in the signature that annoyed me mainly, and the clear true meaning of the thread hun! Its unfair for her to have an open discussion about an issue with members (more than one, some are not online) It shouldnt have been started in the first place!

 

[beanie]

If you have an issue with a particular, then the best way is PM as i have a feeling this thread is going to escalate!

I know you said it but to be fair you then went on to have a go at LondenerClare, which could have been done via PM??
.

i know, it was the link in the signature that annoyed me mainly, and the clear true meaning of the thread hun! Its unfair for her to have an open discussion about an issue with members (more than one, some are not online) It shouldnt have been started in the first place!

but you could have challenged her about it via PM or asked a mod about it. We have lost so many members due to bitching, I just don't see the point of a free for all on the forum. It causes tension, upsets people and gets us nowhere.

 

[Keely]

It shouldnt have been started in the first place!

 

[missac]

If you have an issue with a particular, then the best way is PM as i have a feeling this thread is going to escalate!

I know you said it but to be fair you then went on to have a go at LondenerClare, which could have been done via PM??
.

i know, it was the link in the signature that annoyed me mainly, and the clear true meaning of the thread hun! Its unfair for her to have an open discussion about an issue with members (more than one, some are not online) It shouldnt have been started in the first place!

Jo was speaking up on behalf of all the people that LC has implied are ******ed, I don't think she would start an argument and have a go at someone for the sake of it. LC has asked everyone to be honest.

 

[budge]

i agree - i hate arguments.

i like a good debate but there is debating and as you say beanie a complete free for all .

 

[beanie]

Honest - yes but this is getting into an arguement. I have noticed snide comments towards certain members from certain others and to be frank there is no need.

 

[missac]

Honest - yes but this is getting into an arguement. I have noticed snide comments towards certain members from certain others and to be frank there is no need.

I don't understand?

 

[Londoner Claire]

Well said Beanie which I have done a few times rather than on here. Wasn't me that mentioned any names but mine has been mentioned on numerous occasions just for giving my opinion. I am sorry that I don't agree with what everyone says every time just to lick butt or of fear of offending anyone but I prefer honesty.

I removed that part of my signature, I'll be adding something else instead as I do agree with that one, it was over the top.

 

[Jayceesmumma]

but you could have challenged her about it via PM or asked a mod about it. We have lost so many members due to bitching, I just don't see the point of a free for all on the forum. It causes tension, upsets people and gets us nowhere.

I know..thats my point hun. She started this thread as an open dispute regarding her own arguement with another member. It seems it cant be resolved in PMs as she is not using them..

I dont want to argue hun and i dont intend on doing so, just thought this thread was pointless and wanted to say so! Im not the only one who has said it too! Its clear on the true meaning of the thread, you only have to read her 3rd post to clearly see it, and then she has a go at me for noticing, then basically admitting it in her post after about Keely! Its madness!

 

[x-kirsty-x]

I dont have a problem with you LondonerClaire, you reply to my posts and give me sound advice.

However, alot of this thread is about the link in your sig and I have to say I agree with the others. Im not bitching or taking sides but it is a bit harsh to make such a big deal out of a mistake that loads of people make every day, and when it all comes down to it, its really not that important.

Anyway, I know what this thread is about and I know its not just your sig but Im not getting involved in the rest.

HAPPY Christmas everyone

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Well said Beanie which I have done a few times rather than on here. Wasn't me that mentioned any names but mine has been mentioned on numerous occasions just for giving my opinion. I am sorry that I don't agree with what everyone says every time just to lick butt or of fear of offending anyone but I prefer honesty.

I removed that part of my signature, I'll be adding something else instead as I do agree with that one, it was over the top.

Thanks for removing.
We didnt mention names either hun, i meerely pointed out that you appear to have problems with other members and a thread like this wont resolve them!
You prefer honesty but honesty cant be said!