Right ladies, I need some advice. Totally off topic! Can't ask on fb as I'm friends with the person involved.
So.... On fri am a friend told me my son had been sent to the principals office for biting another child! I was so angry, he hasn't bitten since he was like 2 (he's 8 now). Before he got out of school, I saw the other child's mum in the playground so went to speak to her. She was oblivious to any incident the prior day, and wasn't even bothered. When Jack came out I had a bit of a go at him there and then. He cried, so I got him home and told him to explain what happened. Turns out 3 days prior, he and the other child were playing a game. The other child pretended (no teeth touching skin) to eat Jacks arm, he then did the same back. I asked him to show on me, and it was like how he would pretend to eat Emma's toes but with more growling. So who knows why the other child then told on him 3 days later. Jack got pulled out, told off and sent to the principal before being allowed to explain. He now has to write an apology letter to the other child, and I have to sign it!
I've told him to write the apology letter for pretending to bite as I don't want him apologising for something he didn't do. I'm actually annoyed with how the teacher didn't let him explain, and as a result he's been sent to the principal for the first time ever and is a bit traumatised by that, and then I've just assumed the teacher knew what she was doing and he's had a big telling off from me too.
I've also spoken to some other mums, and their kids were playing the same game and confirm there was no actual biting!
Anyway, would you write to the teacher too? And if so what would you say? I'm afraid I'll be too sarcastic and she will end up picking on Jack for the rest of the year :-/