How are all you new mummies doing?

[Jojo84]

Hayley tends to drink 32 oz of milk a day.

The last 2 night's she's been waking up thru the night. 2 nights ago it wad 4.30, last night it was 3. Took ages to get back to sleep so i feelexhausted. Yesterday was a long day, had mediation. My ex basically said if I doubt change contact by the 20th he'll take me to court. So need to phone my solicitor again today.

What does he want to change it to?

He's being a complete arsewipe!

 

[iWitch]

Vitamin drops are available to buy a sure start children centres - think they're around a couple of £s

 

[Kaedin]

Ahh! hayley drinks alot more than 20oz a day so I don't need them just yet!

He wants to change it to Friday evening to Monday morning (dropping her off home before he starts work at 8am). He said he gave her porridge, but thought weaning means stopping giving bottles, as he "took the meaning from the oxford dictionary"...... I reminded him we had a conversation when hayley turned 6 months that ive now started introducing her to solid food, he denied that ever happened, but i had even given him some examples of stuff to give her.

So he knows now what he's supposed to do, but will see if he follows it. He always goes on about how his mum knows best as nursery nurse but i find it hard to believe she couldn't have told him hayley still needs bottles.

 

[iWitch]

Did you push for the written diary? You could have argued if he'd agreed to this in the first place it would have proven which one of you was wrong about the convo that took place

 

[Jojo84]

I hope you told him to take a hike on the fri-mon... He doesn't floor after her properly, he couldn't loom after her for all that time, plus you wild be constantly worrying

 

[Pumpkin9]

I'm having serious food frustration. Thomas seems to be reverting back to only wanting purée and is getting really fussy. We were going well, he was eating lumpy food, savoury crispy snacks, banana, grape, strawberry, biscuits etc., and now all of a sudden he spits everything lumpy out. Some days it's better than others but how am I ever going to get him to eat normal food when he's not moving on?

I'm thinking his guns are hurting more as they are starting to look whiter and are very hard but there are no teeth cutting

 

[iWitch]

His teeth are probably moving down. Have you tried giving anbesol or even calpol before a meal? Just the once to test? If his gums are hard & he's chewing/dribbling a lot then I would say it's his teeth

 

[Pumpkin9]

Not dribbling as much or gumming on things massively but think
I'll give it a go with some teething stuff to see if it helps

 

[Jojo84]

Luke did that in the week or so leading up to his teeth cutting through then we actually had a hellish few days after they had cut too!

 

[Nicky78]

Summer is the same with her food, she will no longer eat fruit or anything cold? I struggle with food she will eat, I hope it's just a faze

 

[iWitch]

It will be just persist. I'm determined for my LO to eat better than me. He already does

 

[Toria111]

Emma did the same, but I thought it was because she had been sick. Shes still got no teeth, soft gums. But dribbling lots. I've been mushing her food a bit more, and will just increase the lumpiness again.

 

[iWitch]

20% off online at m&s today only!

Also, size 10 jeans!!!! Mega chuffed given I wasn't a size 10 before I fell pregnant!

 

[Pumpkin9]

20% off online at m&s today only!

Also, size 10 jeans!!!! Mega chuffed given I wasn't a size 10 before I fell pregnant!

I saw that. Just been debating buying thomas some clothes as I'll get 20% off that too.

Got some lovely limited jeans last time which fit really well

 

[iWitch]

I just bought a pair from the next staff shop for £10.50. Didn't have chance to try on so just hopefully grabbed a 10 & the fit!

 

[Pumpkin9]

Brilliant- there's something about size 10 that makes you feel like superwoman

 

[Toria111]

Mummies of girls, the fisher price walker that's like a stroller is on sale at amazon for £14.59! I've got Emma one, she loves it. Got the doll to go in if for Xmas too.

 

[Pumpkin9]

Aw dolls and prams none of that round here!

Just spent £300 on M&s clothes for Thomas, whoops! All 9-12 and 12 to 18 including a few Christmas outfits!!

 

[Jojo84]

£300?! Wow. I so to think his full wardrobe cost that lol

 

[Mummybexee]

So tired!!

Hope your all ok!!

Kathryn you sound as bad as me for clothes shopping ! I'm terrible - saw that rocking horse on play pennies last night for 18 quid reduced from 49!! Snapped up that for a birthday pressie for him haha