How are all you new mummies doing?

[Kaedin]

Is be bloody manic too of nobody fed me from 2 pm-7pm!

I get the honest feeling like he just can't be bothered! He didn't feed her? Again? I'd be noting this all down!

I know I probably shouldn't have...but when she was with him I checked his FB (he's unfriended me so I didn't expect to see anything) but he posted twice about the Scottish referendum whilst she was with him. So I'm losing 3 hours of time with my girl so she goes, cries and he spends time on his computer or phone. She's sooo much better off at home!

 

[Toria111]

Awww poor Hayley. Def make notes. I'm Victoria Sheard on facebook

 

[Jojo84]

Is be bloody manic too of nobody fed me from 2 pm-7pm!

I get the honest feeling like he just can't be bothered! He didn't feed her? Again? I'd be noting this all down!

I know I probably shouldn't have...but when she was with him I checked his FB (he's unfriended me so I didn't expect to see anything) but he posted twice about the Scottish referendum whilst she was with him. So I'm losing 3 hours of time with my girl so she goes, cries and he spends time on his computer or phone. She's sooo much better off at home!

She really is. Also seems she's always tired the day after he has her too.

You would think he would just want to spend that time with his wee girl!

 

[Kaedin]

Thanks ladies! I am, also keeping all texts. The thing that makes me more angry is that if I didn't ask how she was he wouldn't have mentioned that she spend most of the time being "manic, screaming the place down" and "going off on one".

I said to him "maybe now you'll realise Hayley cries at times". As the friday before he threw me & hayley out at midnight on sunday he & his family "called bullshit" on the fact i asked him to come home as she was crying and wouldn't sleep well past her bedtime. He said in reply "no need for the ****y comment". Ha funny his comments are fine, but mines are obviously lies in their opinion. Oh well, My girl is home and happy now with her mummy. Sound asleep by 8pm.

You would think that Jojo! She's away for 3 hours and I miss her terribly, yet he's more interested in FB when he only has her for 3 hours after not seeing (or asking about) her for days. Madness.

 

[Kaedin]

Aww Hayley just woke. She's now taken the dummy but is stirring alot. I hope this won't be a long night, have the HV coming at 9:30am. Don't want to look like i've been dragged thru a hedge backwards lol

 

[Pumpkin9]

Perhaps try another bottle to top her up?

I'm Kathryn hewett on fb - pic of me and another girl (sil) in sepia colour - I think!

 

[Pumpkin9]

I have no idea what happened tonight but hubby went up to have a bath and Luke just screamed for about 20-30 minutes!

Wasn't hungry, had already had paracetamol, just crying and crying for no reason I could see.

That happened to us the other night for an hour and 20 minutes! It was the scariest thing we've had so far. I was so close to calling 111 when we finally calmed him down

When's the next full moon? I've had 2 night of screaming. Tonight better than last night though. Probably because I gave Emma calpol before her bottle. Our babies seem to go through similar things at the same time.

Not for sometime I hope! Say 2034 for good measure

 

[T84]

Haha yeah I know I sound crazy! Ive always had OCD tendencies but since having S it's so much worse. I just can't purposely/knowingly give her anything that even possibly has germs. I'm seeing someone to help this and my other ocd'isms as I know it's not good for her. I'm a milton spray fanatic, like literally go through a spray bottle a week on my kitchen alone it's tiring!

Added you kaedin. This whole situation is just horrendous! S would be kicking off too if she hadn't been fed in 5 hours! Why did he not even think that that was why she was crying. It'll help in the long run to document everything. Could you speak to hv about it this morning? x x

 

[Jojo84]

Lol thought you guys might appreciate this as much as I did

http://happyplace.someecards.com/ba...ter-his-babys-projectile-poop-ruins-the-shot/

 

[hayes]

Haha that's so funny the same thing happened to me with Harry he pooped all over me wen we did his shoot, seems like a lifetime ago now tho. Can't believe he will b 8 months soon and just started to really crawl around bless him I have to have eyes everywhere now!!!

Michelle.x

 

[mrssmith2011]

that's absolutely brilliant x

 

[Jojo84]

We didn't do newborn shoots (they freak me out lol) but just found or one of our relatives daughters does family photography and has her own studio so when Luke is 1 were going to have the whole family to do a shoot

 

[Kaedin]

Haha that's brilliant! Love the babys face as he's pooping on daddy lol!

Thanks for adding me folks My ex has text me today saying he's "taking" hayley overnight on wednesday as the 3 hours is "bullshit". If he can't handle her properly in 3 hours why should she be with him longer! Plus means he'd be bringing her back by 7am as he has work. Which will get her out of her routine! She should wake up on her own - not be woken up and dragged out of bed. Ridiculous! Now im nervous incase he takes her and doesnt bring her back on time

 

[Jojo84]

That's not the agreed contract though. Of be making it clear she will stay for the 3 hours or whatever it is and if he keeps her then tell your solicitor. He's being an asshole deliberately. There is contact hours in place as laid out by your solicitor, not returning her will not look good for him!

 

[mrssmith2011]

I totally agree with Jojo he is just being a dick and seeing what you will let him get away with. Stick rigidly to the agreed contact and no more until you get some advice from your solicitor xxx

 

[mrssmith2011]

don't mean to go off topic ladies but going to give Joseph his first 7 month pouch for his lunch (I had a couple of 4 month jars left so I used them first). I hope he eats it ok x

 

[mrssmith2011]

kaedin if you want to add me on facebook I am Victoria Smith pictures are one of my little boy in a white t shirt piped in blue. Main picture is me in a black and white spotty top, my hubby in a blue polo shirt and joseph lying in front of us in his nappy xxx

 

[Pumpkin9]

Lol thought you guys might appreciate this as much as I did

http://happyplace.someecards.com/ba...ter-his-babys-projectile-poop-ruins-the-shot/

Brilliant - the babies face is priceless

 

[Pumpkin9]

don't mean to go off topic ladies but going to give Joseph his first 7 month pouch for his lunch (I had a couple of 4 month jars left so I used them first). I hope he eats it ok x

I gave Thomas a couple of those last week, the chunks aren't that big and he seemed to enjoy them. Particularly the mild curry!

 

[iWitch]

Haha that's brilliant! Love the babys face as he's pooping on daddy lol!

Thanks for adding me folks My ex has text me today saying he's "taking" hayley overnight on wednesday as the 3 hours is "bullshit". If he can't handle her properly in 3 hours why should she be with him longer! Plus means he'd be bringing her back by 7am as he has work. Which will get her out of her routine! She should wake up on her own - not be woken up and dragged out of bed. Ridiculous! Now im nervous incase he takes her and doesnt bring her back on time

Speak to your solicitor. You might be well within your rights to contact the police should he do this