How are all you new mummies doing?

[Jojo84]

He's just trying to push you to the limit. Dud he text you thst?

I'd say that she isn't going at all. He's using her as a weapon.

 

[Maud]

Isabelle has been in a foul mood today, after being cranky for the last 3 days. At first we put it down to the disruption of having her daddy home all week last week, but now we're wondering if she's starting to teeth. She hasnt screamed this much in ages. Horrid day

 

[Kaedin]

Yeah that's what he said by text. He also said "So how is this fair access for me and hayley? you cant possibly want me to spend time with her whilst at the same cutting back our time."

I've already told him multiple times, even when we were together that I want hgim to spend time with Hayley. However; that doesn't mean she should be passed about from house to house random days every week. She needs a stable environment, this will enable her to form a strong bond with her primary carer (which is me!) If he truly wanted to spend time with her, he wouldn't have thrown her out of her bed and home at midnight and changed the locks. I'm going to ignore his text for know, speak with my solicitor in the morning. I think if I let him take her on Wednesday he won't bring her back when I tell him to and I won't be able to do a thing about it

 

[Kaedin]

Isabelle has been in a foul mood today, after being cranky for the last 3 days. At first we put it down to the disruption of having her daddy home all week last week, but now we're wondering if she's starting to teeth. She hasnt screamed this much in ages. Horrid day

Aww no! Hopefully her tooth pops through quickly

 

[Kaedin]

I also bought a MAM bottle today to give a go as using the anti-reflux formula has been a nightmare in my tommee tippee bottles. But it's great in the MAM bottle! It's not getting blocked every 2 seconds, so I'm going to buy more tomorrow and just stop using the TT ones. The anti-reflux formula has been amazing at helping hayleys sickness - only think is she's now pretty constipated. Tried to give her some water for the last 2 days but she just spits it out when she realises it isn't milk heh Will keep trying her though

 

[Jojo84]

We use mam bottles... They're awesome!

 

[hayes]

Harry often has an hr to 2 hr nap in the arvo from anywhere from 1-6 but lately he has been having 3 45min naps if im lucky!! N then wants to b in bed by 6 buh he often sleeps through till 6 still so I don't mind.

Michelle.x

 

[hayes]

Harry often has an hr to 2 hr nap in the arvo from anywhere from 1-6 but lately he has been having 3 45min naps if im lucky!! N then wants to b in bed by 6 buh he often sleeps through till 6 still so I don't mind.

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

Luke had a 30 min nap in his for today and that's the most he's ever napped. Apparently it's 23 in his room tonight but feels freezing

 

[Toria111]

Isabelle has been in a foul mood today, after being cranky for the last 3 days. At first we put it down to the disruption of having her daddy home all week last week, but now we're wondering if she's starting to teeth. She hasnt screamed this much in ages. Horrid day

Sounds like my day. I thought Emma might be getting sick as she got a rash last night. I think it might be her teething too though. I noticed tonight when she was screaming at my face, she's got 4 teeth along the bottom very close to the surface. Given her calpol and put her to bed.

 

[T84]

Aw that's good to know michelle, I might get lucky then. She's a hit or a miss with napping, depending where we are but tends to be at least an hour around 3-4. Going to try my hardest to be in the house around these times and see how it goes!

Haha S does the same kaedin, and gives me a foul look as if to say 'what is this?!'

 

[Toria111]

Kaedin, has your solicitor posted the letter yet? What he needs to understand is she's acting as a mediator, and he can either settle down and try to agree on something. Otherwise it's gonna cost him to go to court. I just don't see how he thinks it's ok to have Hayley all over the place. Silly thing is, if she's not well or playing up he would probably bring her back to you anyway.

I've got a friend who's ex husband left her when she told him she was pregnant. Anyway, he came back on the scene when their son was 2. It all went to court as he then wanted joint custody. They agreed on every other weekend and like a week holiday in the summer. Now he rings up most the time and cancels. Not fair on the kids.

 

[Kaedin]

Kaedin, has your solicitor posted the letter yet? What he needs to understand is she's acting as a mediator, and he can either settle down and try to agree on something. Otherwise it's gonna cost him to go to court. I just don't see how he thinks it's ok to have Hayley all over the place. Silly thing is, if she's not well or playing up he would probably bring her back to you anyway.

I've got a friend who's ex husband left her when she told him she was pregnant. Anyway, he came back on the scene when their son was 2. It all went to court as he then wanted joint custody. They agreed on every other weekend and like a week holiday in the summer. Now he rings up most the time and cancels. Not fair on the kids.

Exactly Toria. And he had Hayley on Saturday until 10am on Sunday. He dropped her off at 9:37am on Sunday...if he really was that keen on getting more time he wouldn't be bringing her back nearly 30 mins early. I think he only has her on days his family are free to deal with her, everytime he's had her he seems to go to his grans, mums, cousins, dads ect, so it's never him playing and dealing with Hayley, it's everyone else whilst he sits on his arse.

 

[hayes]

Fingers crossed for you Jen, I'm so terrified of the hospital tomoz now really hope they just tell me my mole is fine but I have this dreaded feeling it's going to b something bad.can't wait foe it to b over.

Michelle.x

 

[Mummybexee]

Try giving Hayley an ounce of formula with 3 Oz of water Hun- so she has the taste but it's mainly water?

Failing that - try get a teaspoon of OJ with a few Oz of water? Or maybe every day use a carton of formula to try help?

Or go to doctors tomorrow and ask for them to prescribe lactulose that stuff gets the tummy going - sooner rather than later though yeah- else she will get very upset

Hot bath- legs by her face, massage with pinky - or In the past I've held oscars cheeks out and he's then pushed a poop out !!

 

[Pumpkin9]

Hope it all goes well Michelle.

 

[Mummybexee]

Fingers crossed for you Michelle - let us know xx

 

[Natalilly1288]

Thinking of you Michelle let us no how u get on xxx
Just been reading my labour thread for some reason made me cry lol! Also has anyone heard from ceri and little amy? Been wondering how they are getting on xxxx

 

[Mummybexee]

I read her twitter - she seems in good spirits - However it all blew up last time people talked about her twitter so I daren't say anything!

 

[hayes]

Thanks ladies it's at 10 n I'm surprisingly calm atm! Will let u all know as soon as.

Michelle.x