How are all you new mummies doing?

[Kaedin]

Nice to meet you Becca!

I asked my ex about how much he'd like to contribute financially towards Hayley and he said he'll just provide for her when she's with him. I asked what about when she's with me and he said I have my full wages (eh he means my SMP ??) and he hasn't asked for a penny of Hayleys benefits...

He's a moron!! So had to contact Child maintenance and they'll need to speak to him find out how much he earns and give me an amount they would suggest he pays. Hopefully he just does it as I don't need him making all this more difficult. Gah.

Hayley has a long lie until 9am today! Unfortunately I was unable to go back to sleep...long may it continue though

 

[Pumpkin9]

He's going to have abit of a shock Kaedin!

 

[Jojo84]

Hayley your ex is being a right got! It doesn't matter if he provides when she's with him he needs to contribute - there's a calculator somewhere to calculate it yourself just so you have some idea. I hope you're remembering to make a note of all contact in case he decides to get nasty.

Like had a 90 min nap after his swimming. Lovely, the has 12oz!

 

[Kaedin]

Yeh I've kept all texts messages just incase. Child maintenance will work out what they think he should give based on his wages, but i done a calculator and it was saying roughly £130 a month. But this might differ as I don't know his exact wages before tax to work it out accurately.

 

[Kaedin]

So proud of Hayley! Earlier today she was standing up all by her self just using the bar on her rocker for balance! She loves standing and is constantly standing up holding our hands but this is the first time she done it herself!

 

[Mummybexee]

You don't know exactly how much he earns? That Suprises me aid have thought being a couple etc you'd know each other's business - hope he has a bloody shock when they call him he won't like it but tough shit!/

 

[Kaedin]

I know roughly, but as he can have alot of overtime in his work some months he can earn alot more. Or if his work is quiet he may only work his minimum of 35 hours that week

 

[Mummybexee]

Oh I see - get you now

 

[T84]

What a clever girl kaedin!! Shame about the ex - he's not so clever!! x

 

[Pumpkin9]

what a clever little girl!

 

[Pumpkin9]

I'm officially restless today- meh!

 

[Kaedin]

I'm abit bored, Hayleys away to her dads. So I'm sitting watching netflix alone in my room...bleh!!!! I miss company

Do you ladies have any recommendations of anything to watch?

 

[StaceyRainbow]

Oh how clever is Hayley that's class!!
Erm things to watch breaking bad, the OC, sex and the city, prison break, it's always sunny in Philadelphia, Gordon ramsesys kitchen nightmares!, one tree hill, what kinda stuff you into? X

 

[StaceyRainbow]

We're the millers is funny..

 

[Pumpkin9]

Bridesmaid or batchelorette party, def breaking bad or house of cards

 

[Jojo84]

I'm abit bored, Hayleys away to her dads. So I'm sitting watching netflix alone in my room...bleh!!!! I miss company

Do you ladies have any recommendations of anything to watch?

I'm on my period and I feel like my body is twisting up into a ball and my section scar hurts I skipped lunch and I think I'm
About to slip dinner too. I really miss being pregnant sometimes lol I'm watching Netflix too I just watched soap dish and now I'm going to watch the deep end of the ocean cos I like depressingn stuff apparently lol- I'm planing on trying orange is the new black though- I also have ugly Betty to watch and I'm
Secretly watching Thomas the tank engine with Luke and pretending it's for him lol

Luke is in bed - god I hope he sleeps tonight

 

[Kaedin]

I've just finished season 2 of orange is the new black. Really enjoyed it.

Thanks Stacey! will give always sunny in philadelphia a go.

 

[StaceyRainbow]

No worries..

Stanley had his 3rd set of jabs today and he hasn't had any side effects from the last two but today he's been sick loads put him to bed and he cried when he rolled on to his tummy poor baby.. He drifted off on his back now he's on his side, hope he's better tomorrow.
I got him weighed today and he's 17.8oz... He's grew loads this last 4 weeks I can tell in his clothes

Jojo I'm due on the 3rd I find period pains worse now than before!

 

[Mummybexee]

I'm 3 days late!!! God knows - havnt tested because I'm pretty I'm not preggers!

Stanley is just so adorable stace! Love the photos you put on Instagram of him! Hope he feels better soon bless him!

 

[Kaedin]

Aww hope Stanlet feels better soon!

Hayleys has her next jags on Wednesday. I'm so nervous since she got a huge haematoma with the first, but I'm sure these will be fine (positive thinking )