Is it me or do some people insist on telling you how tiring/chaotic/awful/messy/desperate your life will be once the baby is here. We're not stupid...i'm 35 Ffs, it's not something I've rushed into! Plus my husband has had two already so he's well aware. It makes you wonder why these people have had children if it's so awful...! Why do people have to be annoyingly smug and negative?!