I have that overcrowded fear too, like its just this second been born and already i am being told i'm doing this and that wrong and laods of people swarming in grabbing the baby off me and saying this is how you do it!! I just know the fact I wont be putting the baby on its side to sleep will eat my mum away as thats how they did it in hospitals when she was a nurse. I just hope I've got some confidence left by the end of it to tell people to P off

ok i dont know how to look after a baby but i'll learn!

(cant be much different to kittens can it?

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