Congrats Haley!!
I found the first doctor's appointment quite a let down. I felt like there should be fanfares and parades and congratulations and the doctor just told me they'd make an appt at the hospital and that was about it ;o| Not very exciting - especially when you feel like shouting it from the roof tops!!
On the bump question - it took ages!! What's funny is that I'd think I had quite a nice little bump forming and then a week or two later I'd notice how much bigger it was and think 'now, that's a bump; it wasn't before!' and this went on for ages. But really it only started to be an obviously pregnant bump after about 22-24 weeks - before that I could still suck it in and hardly look preg at all!
It's different for everyone though. And once it's there it's so unmistakeable and gorgeously pregnant that I just love it and rub it and pat it all the time! This can cause it's own problems though as people (my Dad and sis) say 'oh, did she kick, can I feel??' every time I rub my lucky bump!! It's MY bump!!