Anyone SMEP this month?

[Corrinne37]

You go girls!!

 

[Emma.b]

Sadly OH didn't feel like bd-ing when i got home from my hen do... May have had something to do with the fact I was vomiting all over myself and the bed....not a good look!! Poor sod. I'd have kicked him out if that'd been him! Turns out that if you don't drink for a few months, you get drunk very very quickly. Oops! x

i just spat coffee all over my laptop!! This is hillarious, completely something i would do!! lol

 

[cornishfairy]

i just spat coffee all over my laptop!! This is hillarious, completely something i would do!! lol

Ha ha!! To really rub it in he had his stag do last night and I was saying to him I'm so glad he was staying at his parents last night so I wouldn't have to deal with him in a similar state and I picked him up this morning to find he drank like a fish, then came home right as rain and he's hangover free today! Jammy git....! I felt rough all day yesterday! That'll teach me.... So annoyed I missed my ovulation day though. Grrrr! X

 

[cornishfairy]

Hmm... Not been successful with smep this month really... Last bd was Tuesday and think ov'd Saturday. Neither of us felt well enough on Sunday to try and catch it so just gotta hope Tuesday's swimmers lived for a long time and were they when I ov'd! Don't hold out much hope though. Must try harder next month!! X

 

[dani.slog]

haha i love all this unromantic forward planning for BD days lol. ive already marked on the calender for my OH to see the days we HAVE to get funky under the sheets!! atn i dnt think hes complaining but im pretty sure when hes getting in at 10.30pm from work on week days ill be doing his head in lol. the things we have to do ay!! xx

 

[cornishfairy]

Nightmare isn't it! Think next month I'll start the bd'ing a bit later as I seem to ov around cd 18 so starting cd 10 and trying every other night we're knackered by cd14!! May start around cd 14 and see how we get on. X

 

[dani.slog]

Wish u all the luck hun!! BFP for us all soon hopefully xxx

 

[jojo3972]

Smep not going so gd this month I'm cd 12 n only managed to Dtd cd10 and yesterday oh was a stormer ( think he on period haha) and so we didn't get on it cos no way am begging him,he's away tonight n we have cleared the air over txt although I have nothing to clear I made first move n texted lol soo be getting on it tomoro and then for the next 3 days cos I always get positive opk day 14 and hopefully will be enough happy humping lovelys hehe xx

 

[Jolly81]

It all sounds so simple in theory! But the simple matter is we just can't force our men to have sex if they just don't want to no matter how desperate we are!

This month has been a weird one for me - bd'd 14, 17,18,19,20 (later tonight)- got my first pos opk yesterday cd 19 so we'll keep going!!

We chop and change am and pm though so it looks like every day but last time was yesterday morning so hopefully his spermies are all wriggly and eager to get out!!! Hahaha!!!

So lots of sex but smep well and truly out the window!!!

Xxx

 

[cornishfairy]

sperm meets egg plan its basicaly sex every other day from cd 8-9 till u get a possitive opk and then sex 2 days ina row 1 day off and one more day n thats it x

Learn something new every day. Is there an acronym for just having sex every day?

Nope, it's too rare!!! I think we did that in the first couple of weeks of our relationship, we were down to once every one to three months until we decided we really needed to work hard at ttc!! We left our libido's in 2004....! xx

 

[jojo3972]

All ,
Men like sex haha it's just when the pressure is on they seem to bk into a corner for whatever reason I have been with my oh 25 yrs and we manage to Dtd a few times a week if possible specialy after a gd book (mr grey haha) well onight he's getting it ov time is here almost and m gagging as usual round ov time I get extra horny lmao sex on the brain hehe x

 

[cornishfairy]

Tee hee!! You horny devils I'm only jealous! Wish I could muster up the energy and enthusiasm for it. I love my other half to bits and fancy him like mad but when it comes to dtd we both find it a real effort if it's regular, we're so lazy!! He'd rather play on the Xbox and I'd rather eat chocolate! We could do with finding some kind of supplement that makes us horny! X

 

[Balthazar1275]

I am now CD10 and we have stuck to SMEP so far. I should ovulate in 2 or 3 days so fingers crossed we catch that egg this cycle.

Michelle x

 

[stephttc]

Hey ladies - I'm already planning my next cycle as I think I am probably out this month! I'm on 13dpo and got bfn this morning so waiting for af to rear her ugly head!

Having seen this smep talk and wandering what it was all about I read the thread .... And it's cheered me up no end! So I thought if you don't mind (and I am out of luck this month) that I would join the smep action!!

Good luck to all - hope it works xx

 

[cornishfairy]

Tee hee!! You horny devils I'm only jealous! Wish I could muster up the energy and enthusiasm for it. I love my other half to bits and fancy him like mad but when it comes to dtd we both find it a real effort if it's regular, we're so lazy!! He'd rather play on the Xbox and I'd rather eat chocolate! We could do with finding some kind of supplement that makes us horny! X

You should try some alternative sexual lifestyle (Roleplay, Fetish, BDSM, Literotica, Swinging lol). Sounds like you're still both young.

The biggest sex organ is your mind. I wouldn't waste my time with pills. Viagra/Cialis has a different effect (yes I've tried it, and I'm a very horny toad ). It'll just make the guy get hard easily after just a slightly horny thought. Although I must confess I took a blue pill (Viagra - think 50mg), and I came really hard, so yeah it did feel much better than usual. And sometimes it reduces your refractory period to 0 (i.e. you stay hard and aroused to go again). Interesting stuff. Fortunately I don't have an addictive personality .

Ooh blimey, haven't got the energy for all of that...! I was quite 'experimental' in my younger years but that does nothing for me these days. Think I shagged myself out whilst single and free, now I'm (almost) married its very low down on my list of things to do in the very little free time we get together. Ttc has made us hit the sack much more often but it just wears us out! Sad, old, knackered knees!! Lol! X

 

[Jolly81]

Right!!!

Smep it wasn't, but fun it was!!! Haha!!!!

Got my first opk on cd19 and our sex fest has gone like this:

Cd14
Cd17
Cd18
Cd19
Cd20
Cd21

And will finally get naughty tomorrow on cd23!!!

It looks like it's an awful lot so I hope his spermies weren't too diluted or anything, but there were 36 hrs between cd19 and cd20 and 24 hrs every other day.

Fingers (and soon legs) v firmly crossed!!!

Not symptom spotting as suh but my boobies really hurt when I take my bra off already and I have constant lower back/stomach cramps.

No idea whether it's still residual ov pains or a good sign but all I know is it's still way too early for any of that!!!

How's everyone else getting on?

Jules xxxx

 

[Emma.b]

Hey,

Well I'm out this month. SMEP didn't work for us. Gonna concentrate more on my fertile window this cycle. All other sex outside of that will be purely for fun!

Good luck to you all x x x

 

[Becky1]

Hi ladies, just a quick note to say the month we got our bfp was the month we followed smep. Sadly I miscarried but once I'm back in the ttc game I will be back on the smep.