Anyone else in their 40s?

[stacesl3]

I've never really seen a super dark blue dye test though so wouldn't worry too much, hopefully af stays away on monday! Be great if we could all follow clementine to tri1 feel like its been a lifetime since i was there last x

 

[Clementine]

I also think the blue cross give a fainter line.

Staces it would be so amazing if we could all be in Tri1 together, it's 3 years 4months since I last got my BFP, so I'm proof that it can be done. I had cut all wheat out of my diet for 10weeks before going on holidays in October I wonder did it make the difference? Also I had been taking Evening Primrose, Omega 3, Vit D & Magnesium not sure if any of them made the difference as I'm still totally shocked that we ended up getting a bfp.

 

[Eryinera]

Syd that looks darker than my cb blue test!!! I hope this is your rainbow x x x

Fx a lot of us recurrent missers got pregnant at the same time it's been great that so many of us have similar stories it would be nice if you .. wiser... ladies all got your bfps together too!!

 

[Clementine]

Love the Wiser !!! It's better than Geriatrics's

 

[Nikkers]

Syd that is a bfp!! Yay! Looking forward to seeing more of your tests! Looks like the over 40 ladies are all getting pregnant at the same time! Fabulous! Really hope I can join the bfp club soon!

 

[lillith112]

Omg Syd, huge congratulations to you, am praying this is your rainbow, you caught so quickly, I was hoping I would catch straight after my miscarriage, not to be though, this af has been ultra heavy. x

 

[Charlotte9]

Congratulations Syd!!!! Hope its your rainbow!

 

[stacesl3]

I also think the blue cross give a fainter line.

Staces it would be so amazing if we could all be in Tri1 together, it's 3 years 4months since I last got my BFP, so I'm proof that it can be done. I had cut all wheat out of my diet for 10weeks before going on holidays in October I wonder did it make the difference? Also I had been taking Evening Primrose, Omega 3, Vit D & Magnesium not sure if any of them made the difference as I'm still totally shocked that we ended up getting a bfp.

It's crazy isn't it that it happens after all this time, I think I had a year and 8 months in between my BFP!! It could have helped, plus being on holiday
I changed my pre conception vits a few months back, now take Zita West ttc multi vitamins which do include vitd and magnesium, Plus I take Zita west Vital dha which has Omega 3 and Zinc, plus the ubiqinol and low dose asprin.... I'm surprised I dont rattle when I walk lol

 

[Syd43]

Thanks ladies, trying to stay relaxed (!) and see what tomorrow brings.

Fingers crossed for all of us, loads of repeat miscarriage ladies got their bfp's together earlier, it would be lovely to make this the over 40s month

 

[Papermoon]

Oh Syd!! Congratulations!! I hope this is it for you!!

 

[Syd43]

Clementine that's really interesting about cutting out wheat, I've read something before about wheat or gluten interfering with progesterone I think.

Thanks papermoon x

 

[Clementine]

Clementine that's really interesting about cutting out wheat, I've read something before about wheat or gluten interfering with progesterone I think.

Thanks papermoon x

Syd i had ended up eating wheat on holidays as we were in Italy and I was surrounded by pasta, pizza, bread ! But now that I've got a BFP I'm back to wheat free. I also hadn't drank any alcohol for 10weeks prior to my holiday, we didn't drink a lot in Italy , but we had friends up last w'end and I drank quite a few Malibu & Pineapples ! I hadn't realized I was pregnant as I'd done a FRER and it was a bfn.

Based on the time difference will you be testing late tonight our time?

Sending you lots of BFP dust

It would be great if November could be the the Over 40's month xxxxx

 

[Syd43]

I LOVE a Malibu and pineapple yes, will be testing between 10 and 11pm tonight UK time. Been on knicker watch all day, nothing so far.

 

[Nikkers]

Syd where do you live? Looking forward to your test tonight and hope that knicker watch today remains uneventful! All you ladies getting BFP's has really put a spring in my step and made me start believing that I can do it too!

 

[Syd43]

I live in Hong Kong Nikkers. Where are you in your cycle now? And how many dpo are you staces? Lil, are you seeing oh this month?

 

[lillith112]

I live in Hong Kong Nikkers. Where are you in your cycle now? And how many dpo are you staces? Lil, are you seeing oh this month?

Syd my OH goes back home when I will be cd13, so unless I get a positive opk by then we probably won't get another attempt until next year. I'm slowly losing hope of this ever happening. I've really been suffering badly with depression and my M.E has come back badly, am not in a good place. I think I should just give up ttc. x

 

[Clementine]

Hi Lil, don't give up hope on TTC , sperm can live up to 5 days so if you bd up to CD13 you would be covered right up to CD18 for ovulation, could you do it twice on CD13 ? I haven't used them myself but some of the girls on here have used a Softcup? To keep the sperm inside. Look after yourself, did you get to speak to your GP as counseling might help xxx

 

[stacesl3]

Im 5dpo, although not holding out much hope this cycle as im pretty sure i had ovulated already by the time we got to dtd!

Big hugs to you lilith xx lttc is such a hard thing to go through and very lonely xx

 

[lillith112]

Hi Lil, don't give up hope on TTC , sperm can live up to 5 days so if you bd up to CD13 you would be covered right up to CD18 for ovulation, could you do it twice on CD13 ? I haven't used them myself but some of the girls on here have used a Softcup? To keep the sperm inside. Look after yourself, did you get to speak to your GP as counseling might help xxx

We have planned for my OH to do a 5 day hold then dtd on cd13, the month I caught we only DTD once that month with a 5 day hold.
My GP said for me to try half dose fluoxetine 10mg but I'm so scared to try it, I wasn't offered any counselling.
Staces crickey your not kidding, I'm a complete mess. xx

 

[Syd43]

Bfn this morning for me so either it's a dodgy test (local brand I've never heard of) or my body has decided this is the month my spotting will stop for the first time in 15 years and AF will come later today.