leighannex
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im 17, going on 18, and found out i was pregnant at 18wk6days, as can guess was a big surprize, and i was on the pill.
my boyfriend of 2yrs, was not happy, and was trying to pressure me in to having an abortion, up untill the legal day you can have them in this country.
in the end i decided wasnt what i wanted and couldnt go through with it.
Few weeks later, he ended up leaving me, but we got back together two weeks later, and we have been fine since, as a couple, as for the situation with the baby, still isnt good, ever since getting back together, he stil goes on how were to young, we cant support a baby, and all the rest. He kind of has improved lately as for the first time, since telling him, the other week he asked how the baby was, has said odd nice comment, and when we went shopping we had a good time in mothercare & he looked at "fathers to be books" but things still arnt way i would of thought he would have took everything. I really do think he is easily influenced by other peoples views, comments on the whole situations, esp his family. He told me his mother said we should consider putting baby up for adoption, which i was rather shocked over, as its their first grandchild, why would you want that? Since we told them, they havent bought nothing for the baby, and my boyfriend still hasnt found the courage to till his grandparents and im due 27th december, because hes putting it off, i think im going to end up being hated by them.
Sorry go on
Has anyone kind being in this situation??
Know anything i can do/say help my boyfriend care/support me more??
How get him to actually be with me in labour, as he says he doesnt want to be??
I feel so let down by him, way hes acted isnt like the person i thought i knew.
Thanks
im 17, going on 18, and found out i was pregnant at 18wk6days, as can guess was a big surprize, and i was on the pill.
my boyfriend of 2yrs, was not happy, and was trying to pressure me in to having an abortion, up untill the legal day you can have them in this country.
in the end i decided wasnt what i wanted and couldnt go through with it.
Few weeks later, he ended up leaving me, but we got back together two weeks later, and we have been fine since, as a couple, as for the situation with the baby, still isnt good, ever since getting back together, he stil goes on how were to young, we cant support a baby, and all the rest. He kind of has improved lately as for the first time, since telling him, the other week he asked how the baby was, has said odd nice comment, and when we went shopping we had a good time in mothercare & he looked at "fathers to be books" but things still arnt way i would of thought he would have took everything. I really do think he is easily influenced by other peoples views, comments on the whole situations, esp his family. He told me his mother said we should consider putting baby up for adoption, which i was rather shocked over, as its their first grandchild, why would you want that? Since we told them, they havent bought nothing for the baby, and my boyfriend still hasnt found the courage to till his grandparents and im due 27th december, because hes putting it off, i think im going to end up being hated by them.
Sorry go on
Has anyone kind being in this situation??
Know anything i can do/say help my boyfriend care/support me more??
How get him to actually be with me in labour, as he says he doesnt want to be??
I feel so let down by him, way hes acted isnt like the person i thought i knew.
Thanks
