Hunnie
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All I seem to do is go on about friends who I struggle with or have problems with on here lol! I promise you I dont scare them all away and its only a select few that are difficult lol!
Basically I found out tonight that an ex long term friend is pregnant. Her mum was the one who told me.
Anyway we had a fall out caused by her boyfriend in about April time. She basically wanted me to be her friend during the time where her boyfriend dumped her and then ended up forgetting about me and another girl and everything we had done for her when the boyfriend decided he wanted her back. I literally did everything for her and took her out places and generally cheered her up and the fall out happened because I was angry that she was just so quick to forget about me and it upset me that our friendship obviously seemed to mean so little to her.
Her mum has forced us to speak to each other again since and Ive told her why I was upset and that I would be friends with her again but that she would have to make the effort this time after I had done in the first place ( which I thought fair enough?) but she never bothered and nothing ever came of it.
I know she doesnt have many friends other than the boyfriend as her mum has told me so I kind of feel like I should be supportive of her during the pregnancy as although Ive had people around me who have helped, none of them have been in the exact same situation as what I have and have generally been older when they had children or my age and not planning on having children for a long time and I feel like if I had had someone who had gone through everything I had then I would have coped a lot better and maybe not felt so alone.
I just dont know whether I should bother. Im half tempted not to because she's never once said anything to me since Ive been pregnant but at the same time we were childhood friends and I feel a bit guilty just leaving her.
Maybe ill just see what comes of it all and if she makes the effort herself
Basically I found out tonight that an ex long term friend is pregnant. Her mum was the one who told me.
Anyway we had a fall out caused by her boyfriend in about April time. She basically wanted me to be her friend during the time where her boyfriend dumped her and then ended up forgetting about me and another girl and everything we had done for her when the boyfriend decided he wanted her back. I literally did everything for her and took her out places and generally cheered her up and the fall out happened because I was angry that she was just so quick to forget about me and it upset me that our friendship obviously seemed to mean so little to her.
Her mum has forced us to speak to each other again since and Ive told her why I was upset and that I would be friends with her again but that she would have to make the effort this time after I had done in the first place ( which I thought fair enough?) but she never bothered and nothing ever came of it.
I know she doesnt have many friends other than the boyfriend as her mum has told me so I kind of feel like I should be supportive of her during the pregnancy as although Ive had people around me who have helped, none of them have been in the exact same situation as what I have and have generally been older when they had children or my age and not planning on having children for a long time and I feel like if I had had someone who had gone through everything I had then I would have coped a lot better and maybe not felt so alone.
I just dont know whether I should bother. Im half tempted not to because she's never once said anything to me since Ive been pregnant but at the same time we were childhood friends and I feel a bit guilty just leaving her.
Maybe ill just see what comes of it all and if she makes the effort herself
