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Embarrassed about bump with other half?

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Me and my boyfriend are going away to a hotel for the night this thursday as a treat from my dad before the baby arrives.
Anyway I wanted to do something a bit special so I bought a gorgeous underwear and stocking thing set on anne summers to wear and suprise him :p
Hes said to me in the past how he finds me having a bump quite attractive as its his baby in there.
But I always feel a bit self concious about getting naked infront of him and dont feel very sexy with a big bump with stretchmarks on getting in our way.
Does anyone else feel like this??
 
awww bless ya! im self concious anyway about my body, so being pregnant doesnt help!! it was only last night during 'sexy time' that i realised how big i was getting and it was just so unsexy... having to go to the toilet half way though and having to manouvour myself carefully because of aches and pains and a baby bump!! ohhh dear!! lol

i've even gone as far as asking my partner if he'll still finds me attractive when im bigger and have a flabby baby gut anf stretchmarks etc and he told me to stop being silly and that of course he will!! i guess its all part of becoming a mum!

Try and relax, you bf obviously finds you attactive, so enjoy your weekend and have fun! xx
 
Sorry bumping in ;) :lol: I don't like having a bump & being naked with OH but he keeps going on how the more I grow the more sexy he finds me, and just want it all the time :o men never fail to surprise me x
 
I have some days where I feel quite sexy with bump but other days where I just feel like a whale! Have to admit I would rather do it with lights off :)
 
It honestly doesn't bother me...luckily I'd already had kids wen I met my dh so he's never known me without my 'mummy tummy' but I occasionally get a glimpse of myself gettin out the bath and stuff and I think ugh but it doesn't seem to bother him...infact he seems to want it more now than ever lol xxx
 
I feel like that. I don't like being seen naked.
I don't feel sexy or attractive. I can barely see my feet n forgotten what my vajajay looks like :(
Even tho my partner (like urs) finds it attractive. I just don't feel it.
I refused to buy any sexy undies. I walk into ann summers n burst into tears as I'm no longer a sexy curvaceous
10/12. I just feel like a 5ft blob.
 
I loved my bump! Pregnancies the only time I fill happy about my figure and now Charleys here I really miss my bump! Hope you have a fab time away x x
 
I feel ok in front of my partner, im quite lucky all my weight is baby. I was 10s2lbs before I was preg, im 31 weeks now n only weigh 10st6nhalflbs. Ive lost weight off my body n its all going to him. I find that sex feels much better when preg n so does OH which explains why he doesnt last too long (sorry tmi) haha bless him xx
 
Omg bidsy Im glad im not the only one. My other half lasts a few minutes max since me being pregnant, its insane =l
 
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Oooh nice undie set! Go for it, he will love your body as it is now Hun X
 
i have to be honest.. I was very self conscious with my body before i got pregnant. But once i got my bump wow i became very confident.. I felt great, i loved my bump and so did OH. Tmi alert- i used to never come from under bed covers while i was having sex but when i was pregnant i never even got into bed lol :)

hope you have a BRILL time at the hotel.. Get those guests in next room complaining about the noise hehe.. Oh and good choice with ann summers, i hope OH appreciates it :D x
 
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I have to say I feel more sexy and womanly now than I ever have and would be up for it all the time if only OH were here dammit!!!! :wall2:
 
Sex has been weird for me whilst preggers. We just treat it as one big joke because it really freaks my husband out. He is convinced our child is going to come out with a big bellend imprint on it's forehead and will therefore legitimately be known as 'dickhead' forever (his words not mine!). Also him paying some special attention 'down there' hasn't happened at all because, and I quote, "I'm scared it can see me!" and that was always really important beforehand.

As we're at the final stage any sex is now purely in the hope of starting things off so it feels clinical and he has whinged that I'm raping him and using him for his sperm! True though.

So, you enjoy your dirty weekend and make the most of it!!! Xxx
 
My mum asked me if I knew anyone with a 'vajazzle' the other day....I don't even want to know what she was thinking lol!!

Gem - my OH hasn't caught on to the fact that I'm using him for sperm yet...either that or he can't believe his luck and is keeping quiet about it!
 

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