saralou5
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This is what I got told today. 'You should get married because you're having a baby and it'd be the right thing to do.'
I do not plan on getting married and do not appreciate people telling me what I should do. Marriage isn't for everyone and as much as I appreciate the sentiment it's not for me and my OH. We're perfectly happy as we are and even if we wanted to get married we couldn't afford it, especially with the little one on the way! I just think some people can be so judgemental and when I responded with 'Well marriage isn't for us' I got the most hideous glare of the guy that said it!
I think the right thing to do is for me and the OH to give our baby the love and support he needs and we don't need marriage in order to do this. 'The right thing to do.' That's what annoys me.
Rant over, apologies
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I do not plan on getting married and do not appreciate people telling me what I should do. Marriage isn't for everyone and as much as I appreciate the sentiment it's not for me and my OH. We're perfectly happy as we are and even if we wanted to get married we couldn't afford it, especially with the little one on the way! I just think some people can be so judgemental and when I responded with 'Well marriage isn't for us' I got the most hideous glare of the guy that said it!
I think the right thing to do is for me and the OH to give our baby the love and support he needs and we don't need marriage in order to do this. 'The right thing to do.' That's what annoys me.
Rant over, apologies
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