Can't see them, Hels, what are they called?
I think that's a cool idea! my cousin is a very "cool" guy, and hates getting dressed up! So, for his wedding 2 years ago, he "booked" a field (he lives in the countryside!) and got married there, in shorts!!! everybody HAD to wear shorts and trainers!!!
I don't have pictures coz I could not go, it was just when school year started again, and I had to be in my classroom instead!
Just like you, he wante to be HIM, so refused to get dressed up! His wife just got a nice summery dress, nothing special, with trainers on!
They played football all afternoon, the girls against the men, and danced all night long in the field...then, people just slept in tents they had put themselves in a corner of the field!!
They really enjoyed themselves and it was a very special day for them and the rest of the family!
so, my advice is: Don't be afraid to BE YOURSELF!!! it is YOUR day, and if you enjoy it, everybody else will!
Have you already purchased the dress?
Mel xx