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Violent Behaviour at Nursery

Thanks hun but it's not till Thursday

:-)

I'll update everyone though, don't worry.

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Sorry!! I must have misread..

Yep do keep us updated.

X
 
I'm so happy that they are telling you about the good days too! Hope it's the start of a new nursery experience!! Xx
 
So,

They've given us a sheet with the things Can is good at, problem areas, triggers for bad behavior and their plan to help him.

They are applying for funding to get him a support worker one day a week and we've discussed thing we can do at home to help him and be consistent with what they are doing at nursery too.

It still all seems to be taken very seriously, but from what the were saying it seems there have been a lot of incidents.

I'm still not sure that things aren't being blown out of proportion but I'm glad that he's going to be getting one to one support. He's a bright kid so I don't think he'll take long to learn once he has the right help.

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is it always the same type of incidents?
it just sounds a bit over the top to me. i work in a nursery with the children aged 3 to 4 and there are some children that started not so long ago who really struggled to settle in. we wouldnt have thought of getting funding to get extra help?! some kids just need time. theres a little one who i look after that had such a terrible temper and also occasionally bit another child when she felt threatened but 4 or 5 weeks later, shes completely settled and shes learnt how to control her temper around other children. shes one of the most popular kids in the group!
i just find it so sad when some settings jump the gun a bit and are so quick to label kids :( xxx
 
Sounds like they really are trying to help, and it's positive they are putting an action plan in place. I know it might seem like an overaction but they will have a behaviour management policy in place, and will be following this which they are required to do. I know at my sons nursery they had a zero tolerance policy for violent behaviour and would definitely have taken action if it wasn't an isolated incident.

As you say, I'm sure he will learn over time as he's only 3, but the nursery is doing the right thing by him, and the other children, by what they are doing right now. Best of luck x
 

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