The NTNP thread! 1 BFP so far!

[Babybushie28]

Didnt finish! Will be having lots of dtd with oh and lots of dates nights while we can!!

Xxxx

 

[Rednursie]

This sounds like the best approach to me....Here here! Since my mmc I've been so stressed out about getting a bfp that I'm beginning to loose all sense and reason. Every cycle i cry when i get my period and its just getting too much. I Started using opk's last month and even thought I was going to cry when I was getting the 'wrong' results compared to what i predicted myself. Im also sick of being told "well at least you know you can conceive" just because ive had a mc. So I'm going to try my best now to chill out and going back to jumping in the sac just because I feel like it-Not because a stick ive peed on tells me to lol. Easier said than done I know but I'll give it my best shot. Good luck everyone xxx

 

[dollface79]

After 3 years of trying to conceive we stopped trying aswell, i figured after 1 miscarriage eyars earlier it was obvious i was not meant to have a baby! It was actually very relaxing not having to time things and pee on things all the time... we basically got back on with our lives and decided we were going to take a trip to Vegas and get married at the end of this year...

1 month after sorting the holiday... i realise i'm a week late and just to shut OH up took a test... positive!!!!!!! Needless to say the holiday was cancelled lol

It was the best thing we ever did in stopping ttc. Instead just let nature take it's course and all that.

xxx

 

[LuciaLeek]

I'm not going to do opks or temping or anything this time but Im going to make sure we dtd at the right times. I'm definitely not going to obsess about it and dtd every other day etc and sling my legs in the air for an hour afterwards...not yet anyway

I did temping etc when trying for my first and couldn't understand why I was getting bfns as I was doing everything 'right' In the end, I sacked it all off and just dtd when we actually wanted to. Lo and behold, that was the month I got my bfp!

Good luck to everyone this month!

Happy boshing!

 

[netty]

Babybushie your mum sounds like mine lol wise lady! I had my 21 day bloods done all I am picture perfect apparently even my doctor said just relax

The mother nature quote is sooo good and so right!!

I'm having date nights too lots more cuddles and kisses and lots of lovely slippery sex

Maybe I should do an NTNP roll call???

Fapatalking

 

[netty]

And for the ladies who have had mc,'s its definitely time to start remembering yourselves I webt crazy after I lost mine at 14 weeks and forgot I am a person not a crazy egg and sperm obsessed pee pot addict!!

I think its just a way to control things as my mmc was such a shock....I never found out till my first scan!

Yay to the relaxed approach so pleased so many are doing the same and keep the success stories coming!

Fapatalking

 

[SarahCarps2be]

It's nice that you can all support each other in trying to not try! good luck ladies xxx

 

[russellmuscle]

lynette

best of luck with ntnp, you deserve a little bean so much !

 

[netty]

thanks sweety, its got to be my turn soon

 

[russellmuscle]

thanks sweety, its got to be my turn soon

awwww dont give me those eyes i just got a lump in my throat! lol

you'll have a lot more fun ntnp prob, hubbys can sense when girls get ott about something so he will dig your relaxed approach too probs

oh - and i hope he does propose eeeek xxxx

 

[netty]

nawww thanks darling my bean is well delayed!!! **sighs** cant wait to be a mummy, but i am not going to send myself loopy trying for it.


Patience is a virtue

 

[russellmuscle]

i always live off sayings, they get me through the day i even have a wee calander with a different quote every day:

brevity is the sole of whit.. hmm not sure if i like todays one!

 

[CARNAT22]

I am very proud of you Lynette, this laid back attitude really suits you!

When you do get your BFP you must carry on in the same way

xxxxxxxxx

 

[Babybushie28]

Babybushie your mum sounds like mine lol wise lady! I had my 21 day bloods done all I am picture perfect apparently even my doctor said just relax

The mother nature quote is sooo good and so right!!

I'm having date nights too lots more cuddles and kisses and lots of lovely slippery sex

Maybe I should do an NTNP roll call???

Fapatalking

Defo do a roll call Hun lol!! There are so many stories of 'we stopped trying and happened' that will be our quote soon lovely

Good luck to all of us!!

 

[ab11]

im with u on this one hun.
me n hubby had a long chat whilst tryin i was meant to be sleepin last night ended up stayin up till daft o clock talkin.
we both feel like ttc is takin over, im gettin stressed n upset wen ttc stressing is the last thing we should be doin.
fair enough weve been together 5years bt we both said that flame is jus blowing now not sparkling like it just too. wen i used to come in from work he just to jump me
now we jus have sex cause we have to, so were gonna still have sex wen were meant but just start enjoyin each other again and living life again.
we used have so much fun, now its start to have fun, put ttc to back of our minds
hope i make sense lol

 

[netty]

That makes perfect sense sweety x

Fapatalking

 

[babyem]

We decided to TTC, but we weren't using OPKs and I have no idea about any of the rest of it! I think when we were most relaxed, it happened x

 

[netty]

Thanks baby em!! I LOVE these success stories so much I am getting excited at just leaving it to nature for a bit!!

Fapatalking

 

[CARNAT22]

I got pregnant 3 times without peeing on anything [until AF was late!]

Granted this time we did use OPK's but that is only because I am a control freak

xxxxxxxxxx

 

[BabyBrain]

I used to have a well paid job, posh car and all that, would have had a great maternity package etc. I always said I'd get pregnant when we were skint, I now earn a month what I used to earn in a week, and bugger me I did lol