SMEP - who is using this/or has been sucessfull with this

[itisbabytime]

Yeah kanga, the more the merrier!

So now I am day 16, had 4 days of faint line on OPKs (so negative results). havent had any EWCM and temp hasn't risen yet so maybe it's just late this month.

Gotta go time to as per SMEP!!

 

[flisstebbs]

Hi Kanga, welcome to the fun! I'm CD5, so having a little rest before round 2. xx

 

[babybo]

Hey kanga welcome to the little group!!

Cd8 today.
Poas this morning and had another faint line on an opk ??
It's odd that I'm getting lines when usually get just one line?
Still going to continue with the plan of everyother night until two strong lines then go for it!! Lol
Hopefully it'll be wed when I get the two strong lines as I'm off we'd thurs fri so OH will be needed day and night lol!!

Xx

 

[TaffyRose]

Go for it Babybo! I'm on cd15 so expecting a smiley face any day now, then I hit the 2WW!! As much as OH has loved SMEP - for obvious reasons I do understand what some of the girls have said about keeping things new. So as we work together I've started wearing sexy work attire, SMEP has stepped up a gear and OH thinks Xmas has come early! xx

 

[babybo]

Whit woo taffy!! I think we may go down that route too! I did a boudior shoot for hubby as a wedding pressie and he hasn't seen any if the undies except in the photos!! May have to dig them out! X

 

[TaffyRose]

Definitely hun dig out those undies hun! I think it's important to make it fun and make sure you still feel sexy rather than it just being about baby making. Some of my friends actually went off sex ttc because it became really pressured and regimented. Fx for us all this month xx

 

[babybo]

Fx xxxx

 

[proudmummy]

yayy af arrived today so cd1..can't wait to start..for the ladies that have 30 or 31 day cycles what day cd do you start bd'ing? xx

 

[kanga86]

I am going to start on cd8 like the other ladies or when AF makes her disappearance! We have only dtd 3 times since may had morning sickness quite bad and wasnt up for it, after the mmc i have had bleeding/spotting almost continously for 6 weeks!

This will be my first month using opk's so could be interesting to see when ov actually is, started using the opks on cd7 (today), there was 2 lines but negative. I also have some digi one coming in the post for when the cheapies look positive just to confirm it. Xx

 

[Corrinne37]

Hope you dont mind me gatecrashing?
But I was going to start this last month we BD CD8, 10 and 12 and no more as OH first didnt feel like it and other stuff just got it the way. I thought right next month Ill do it.
But I got my BFP!!!!
So, I jjust wanted to say dont stress too much if you cant do it every single time as stated, I think its best to do it when you are both relaxed and in the mood.
Good luck ladies. xx

 

[eliviasmummy]

Aw thanks corrinne! I'm on day 24 and been having cramps and headaches recently, don't normally get them this early on... Getting them alot though and I only remember getting them around af was due last time?? Confussed but can't wait to find out!! Congratulations on it BFP!! How exciting have a happy 9 months xxx

 

[itisbabytime]

proudmummy if you google SMEP you will get loads of info but generally start on day 8.

Corrinne - WOW made my day, heres to a h&H 9months!!

I am now day 17, and still no ovulation. I have had 5 days of two lines (but one lighter than the other so negative result) What the hell is going on. Made hubby go and get some CB digi ovulation tests but they were negative too. I must relax cause I know I ovulate as I got strong lines on OPKs last month. Im so stressed out with work could that be the reason??

 

[eliviasmummy]

Itsbabytime- I had the exact same this month, Tuesday and Wednesday faint lines but did get much stronger Wednesday eve but not enough to be positive, I just assumed I'd either missed it as there was no line Thursday or that my 'samples' just weren't strong enough as I was drinking alot due to the weather... Not too worried though as I always ov and I didn't feel any different this month? Still had some discharge, cramping etc... I'm now 25dpo and iv been having alot of cramps, wind and bloated, So maybe..just maybe!! If I was you just bed every day til the line goes, that's what I did atleast it covered then just incase!! Good luck xxx

 

[babybo]

Corrinne- big congrats on your BFP!!!

Proud mummy- my cycles are 30 days. We're going go try and BD everyday from cd 10 until cd 16. We'll BD everyother day before and after that just incase!! X

 

[kanga86]

Well I think the witch has gone, cd8 today so gonna try and get this plan it motion tonight! Although I do have relatives down so could feel a bit weird?! :S

But then oh is out late tomorrow night, and I'm out on sat night! Oh well Sunday maybe a better day but at cd12 could it be a little late? I suppose it depends when ov happens, arrrgh why is ttc so frustrating!! Xx

 

[DriahMay]

We tried this roughly and caught in May but sadly had a MC, We are trying it again this time

 

[flisstebbs]

I'm still enjoying a little rest this week. DH home tomorrow from business trip and CD8 so works out nicely for once!

Quite impressed how into it he is that he booked his trip around my cycle!!!

In terms of "keeping it fresh", we are trying to go on more date nights which does seem to work for us, I like a little seduction... Oh and nice pants, like you guys said never hurts...

 

[babybo]

I've got my parents sister and nephew staying from Wednesday cd14 to sat which is right in the middle of our chances of conceiving!!! I'm off work too so was planning on BD night and day but bit much chance of that with the house full!!!! My nephew is 5 and completely adores my hubby so he'll be in our room the moment he opens his eyes!! X

 

[eliviasmummy]

Set an alarm and get a session in before the little one gets up, we have to do that !! Plus I read it's more effective in the morning xx

 

[babybo]

Set an alarm and get a session in before the little one gets up, we have to do that !! Plus I read it's more effective in the morning xx

Lol thankfully we sleep on the top floor so will hear him come up the stairs but we've no lock on the door!! Think I may invest in one this weekend!! Haha xx