Squeakz
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Hi everyone, im new here, almost 11 weeks pregnant with my first child. Im 21, married to an incredible man, student at uni.
Having a baby was everything i've ever wanted but now that its here im not 'happy'. I feel sad, which i know is stupid and i shouldnt but i cnat help it. I dont know if im just overwhelmed, and daunted as we weren't planning on it (were using protection, just failed us) or what and im so confused. I can't bring myself to say he/she, i just use 'it'.... Our families are incredibly supportive and so our friends i just feel lost, and i suppose this all feels a little premature in my life (again i know it soudns selfish andi m sorry) but i jus can't getmy head around it, it wont sink in.... Im sorry if i dampened anyones day, i just wondered if anyone else felt like this or had any advice?
S x
Having a baby was everything i've ever wanted but now that its here im not 'happy'. I feel sad, which i know is stupid and i shouldnt but i cnat help it. I dont know if im just overwhelmed, and daunted as we weren't planning on it (were using protection, just failed us) or what and im so confused. I can't bring myself to say he/she, i just use 'it'.... Our families are incredibly supportive and so our friends i just feel lost, and i suppose this all feels a little premature in my life (again i know it soudns selfish andi m sorry) but i jus can't getmy head around it, it wont sink in.... Im sorry if i dampened anyones day, i just wondered if anyone else felt like this or had any advice?
S x