Scared and confused

[Simoneh00]

She's real ladies. Just terrified and confused x

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[netty]

Im afraid you just have to wait for the baby to come hun, thats the only way you are finding out the daddy x

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[Chloe91]

I know that in reality that's what I have to do... But there is like 11 days between the sexual intercourse dates so surely I should be able to find out when I concieved before 9-10 months down the line... If its not my bfs then my baby won't know it's father because I dont and I don't want that for my child xxx

 

[jojo3972]

there just is no way of knowing unfortunatly bcos sperm can live up to 5 days inside us and some ladies ov early some late u cant do this by guess work its not right xx

 

[Chloe91]

Exactly what you said jojo3972 when I did research it said my conception date was the 6th April and about 7 days before then I had sex but that was only 3 days after my period finished..., that's why I was asking and keep asking if it's ur to me having intercourse on the 31/03 I'm pregnant or am I pregnant because I had sex after the 10/04??? Xxx

 

[Wilson28]

We've all made mistakes in life, you need to stop worrying about what happend and start concentrating on what you are going to do, do you live your bf? Chances are you havent been that happy lately so you strayed however and now this has happend you are clinging into your saftey net (yr bf)
You need to ask yourself do you want a baby? Even if it turns out to be one your own?? Stop being scared and look at what could be xx

 

[twinkles]

The girls have given u over 20 replied saying around 10th, not one saying any earlier...think there's your answer!x

 

[Jayjay027]

I don't understand what else you want us to tell u. You've asked the same question 100 times on various sections of this forum, and we have all given u the same answer!
Asking again won't change it.

I understand ur afraid, but that's not going to change the outcome!

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[jules84]

Sorry, I'm only replying now. I didn't reply earlier as I couldn't have given you any more info than the other girls have given you. It seems the highest chances it is your bf's . you should be able to tell at your 12 weeks scan as it will be up to 3 days out max so you'll know then.

Hope it all works out for xxx

 

[midnight]

if the test says 2-3 weeks then the date you conceived would be 2-3 weeks ago, they always add 2 weeks on to the digi reading so they would say you are 4-5 weeks but sperm met egg 2-3 weeks ago does that make sense?

 

[Fortan leat]

My first test was a clearblue digi and it said 3+ weeks, I know that this is not the case for me but the next two said 1-2 weeks which is more realistic. I know when I ovulated (around 1 day earlier than Fertility friend says) and I know when I had sex. I am 4 weeks and 6 days just now. It is unlikely that sperm would have survived that long as it is rare and only in really good conditions that they can survive for 5+ days.

I think, as everyone has said it is most likely your BFs although until scan or baby is born you can't be 100% sure.

Here is a link to my chart you it will give you some ideas, although I tend to ovulate later on.

Good luck
[url=http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3a078b/]My Ovulation Chart[/url]

 

[Chloe91]

Hi... I just came back from early pregnancy clinic, this did a normal ultrasound couldn't see anything, they then did an internal couldn't see anything but a sac, so they did a blood test I have to ring them at 3pm to find out the results and I have to go back on Thursday for more blood test to see if the hcg levels have gone up, stayed or gone down... Still confused as the scan lady said its more likely I'm pregnant from intercourse the second time but then the maternity lady said because sperm can survive for days it's still likely I am pregnant from intercourse the first time... So I'm still do confused... The midwife said if I wa between 5-6 weeks then they should have been able to see more then just the sac so god knows what's going on... Quick question does being highly intoxicated do anything to seman or anything? Xxx thanks ladies xxx

 

[jojo3972]

thats all a bit confusing but wen i have looked on google the yolk appears roughly 5.5 weeks so if this is indeed a healthy pregnancy then i would say 90% the sperm from second man is the babys dadddy,and not that i know of cos lets face it a lot of pregnancies are made by drunken one night stands xx

 

[Chloe91]

Yeah because I should be 6 weeks on Friday... But see what the results are from blood... Yeah the question was for my friend thank you for the answer I did tell her that...I just didn't think I would be 5 weeks org by my bf if we didn't have sex until after 10/04 xxx

 

[Simoneh00]

I had been drinking when I conceived my first 2 lol. Probably because we were so relaxed and not worrying about ttc to be honest. I still honestly think that if you'd gotten pregnant on the 31st they would have saw more on your scan today which means baby's daddy is your bf. Have you told him yet?xx

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[Chloe91]

I don't think I got pregnant on the 31st I think because I had sex on the 31st that's the reason I'm pregnant because sperm can live in you for like 3-7 days I think his sperm stayed around and then when I ovulated I got pregnant because I had se with my bf until after the 10th and that would make me like medically speaking 3-4 weeks pregnant xxx no I haven't told him or anyone apart from the forum anything yet I want to know for definite before... Just going to find out my blood test results xxx

 

[Chloe91]

My results were hcg levels 1952... Xxx anyone know what this means lol? I'm terrible I know sorry xxx

 

[Poppy1987]

Good luck I hope everything works out for you

 

[daniph1]

That your between 4 n 5 weeks preg! X

 

[Princess81]

I still think it would be 10th April for conception and that u are only 3 weeks post-conception and that's why they can't see much on the scan x