November 2018 Testing Thread

[Jellybean86]

We all here to listen to each other vent Jellybean.
How long until you test hun? x

My Ovia app reckons AF due on 13th November. I'm just down as I was hoping to be pregnant by Xmas. I know compared to many I haven't been trying long. Started April and then MC in August so I know I shouldn't feel so down and that it will happen but I'm just having one of those days you know xx

Jellybean you have every right to feel like that. You have been TTC longer than i have & I also feel the way you do so you have every right hun.
I was hoping to be pregnant by Christmas too. I really wanted a summer baby. I am giving myself this cycle and December cycle until i go absolutely nuts.
Chin up hun xx

Yes I am sure I will feel good again soon. Just need to have a relaxing weekend I think! Xx

 

[chattychar1990]

We all here to listen to each other vent Jellybean.
How long until you test hun? x

My Ovia app reckons AF due on 13th November. I'm just down as I was hoping to be pregnant by Xmas. I know compared to many I haven't been trying long. Started April and then MC in August so I know I shouldn't feel so down and that it will happen but I'm just having one of those days you know xx

Jellybean you have every right to feel like that. You have been TTC longer than i have & I also feel the way you do so you have every right hun.
I was hoping to be pregnant by Christmas too. I really wanted a summer baby. I am giving myself this cycle and December cycle until i go absolutely nuts.
Chin up hun xx

Yes I am sure I will feel good again soon. Just need to have a relaxing weekend I think! Xx

Wish i was having one of those. I cant remember the last time i had a weekend of doing nothing. Thankfully tonight i am chilling but tomorrow and Sunday seeing friends etc. I am not a massive drinker but its my friends birthday so will be having a few cocktails this weekend as a treat x

 

[EmmaN27]

Yep, I'm with you, I know 4-5 months isn't long for trying, but it feels like a lifetime and still gets me down. It's because we want it so bad and it's out of our control what happens. x

 

[Vintageling]

We are all in the same boat hun I'm going nuts over here

 

[Sjf0709]

When I came off my pill in May I thought I’d be pregnant by Christmas. Don’t feel too down ladies - there’s still time yet! X

 

[Vintageling]

Yea we still have time

 

[Jellybean86]

We are all in this together. I need to relax. And I like to be in control and this is a situation you can only control to an extent. U can have sex and find out when u ovulate but after that, it's out of your control. I hate it! People say oh just enjoy the trying part but after disappointment month in month out with the arrival of the witch, it's hard to not get frustrated. On top of that, I'm anxious about the possibility of getting pregnant and then having another miscarriage. Just need to stay positive and take my mind off it all I suppose xx

 

[Sjf0709]

We are all in this together. I need to relax. And I like to be in control and this is a situation you can only control to an extent. U can have sex and find out when u ovulate but after that, it's out of your control. I hate it! People say oh just enjoy the trying part but after disappointment month in month out with the arrival of the witch, it's hard to not get frustrated. On top of that, I'm anxious about the possibility of getting pregnant and then having another miscarriage. Just need to stay positive and take my mind off it all I suppose xx

You and me both. After 2 MCs the thought of being pregnant again excites me but also terrifies me. I have to let the excitement win otherwise we’d never TTC again. Like you said, these things are out of our control unfortunately but at least we know we can get pregnant and everything is working (of sorts!) I’m trying to see the positives in everything otherwise I’d just sit here and cry about the whole TTC journey haha x

 

[Vintageling]

I know what you mean hun I like to be in control to and the loss of control with TTC is so hard knowing there isn't much you can do to make things happen

 

[Jellybean86]

I'm hoping BFPs all round ladies! Xx

 

[Vintageling]

Yea fingers crossed for every one

 

[Kitana]

Yes me too Jellybean! I hope you can relax tonight and have a nice cosy evening to bring back the positive vibes.

I'm 9dpo and have very few symptoms. I had a dull ache earlier today on the right side of my pelvic area but was gone after half an hour. I had a stark white hpt this morning but as I'm not trying to ss too much, I threw it away and try again tomorrow morning. I feel better not focusing like a mad woman on every single twinge or pull.

How is everyone else doing, where are you in your cycles?x

 

[Vintageling]

Fingers crossed kit
I'm CD 2 but next testing day will be the 27th of this month so fingers crossed we catch it

 

[BabyMaker]

Hi ladies, congratulations to Mammawannabe! Great way to start the month

sorry to those who have had a visit from AF

I'm not sure if ttc is going to happen after all this month. I'm due to ov sometime between Sun-Tues (varies between my 4 (yes four) apps...)
However, my DH has recently had some bad news in his family and he's not in a good place right now. We've talked about it and he says he wants to ttc when he's happy and in a good place which I totally understand but a selfish part of me is secretly crushed! I pray he'll be ready next month but who knows. On top of that we've now got my family arriving Sunday - Wed's and the guest bedroom is right next to ours... So, dtd would be slightly tricky as the walls are so thin haha! If he did change his mind this month I'm sure we could find a way though. Needs must and all that just wanted to vent my selfish frustration somewhere lol! Have a great weekend everyone xx

 

[Jellybean86]

Yes me too Jellybean! I hope you can relax tonight and have a nice cosy evening to bring back the positive vibes.

I'm 9dpo and have very few symptoms. I had a dull ache earlier today on the right side of my pelvic area but was gone after half an hour. I had a stark white hpt this morning but as I'm not trying to ss too much, I threw it away and try again tomorrow morning. I feel better not focusing like a mad woman on every single twinge or pull.

How is everyone else doing, where are you in your cycles?x

I'm not surely exactly when I ovulated, but my peak was picked up in my digi on Tuesday .. so I am guessing Wednesday?? So i am about 2dpo. I have had really painful pulling pains in the right of my pelvis from Sunday till this morning. Ugh. But not had many symptoms yet. Wouldn't really expect them at the moment.

 

[EmmaN27]

CD11 for me, expecting positive OPKs the beginning of next week hopefully! Hate all the waiting in ttc! X

 

[Jellybean86]

CD11 for me, expecting positive OPKs the beginning of next week hopefully! Hate all the waiting in ttc! X

It's bloody annoying the whole waiting bit...

 

[Vintageling]

Hi ladies, congratulations to Mammawannabe! Great way to start the month

sorry to those who have had a visit from AF

I'm not sure if ttc is going to happen after all this month. I'm due to ov sometime between Sun-Tues (varies between my 4 (yes four) apps...)
However, my DH has recently had some bad news in his family and he's not in a good place right now. We've talked about it and he says he wants to ttc when he's happy and in a good place which I totally understand but a selfish part of me is secretly crushed! I pray he'll be ready next month but who knows. On top of that we've now got my family arriving Sunday - Wed's and the guest bedroom is right next to ours... So, dtd would be slightly tricky as the walls are so thin haha! If he did change his mind this month I'm sure we could find a way though. Needs must and all that just wanted to vent my selfish frustration somewhere lol! Have a great weekend everyone xx

Fingers crossed for you hun it is so frustrating when they change the plan even when we know they are sometimes right to do so have a good vent all you need hun

 

[Sjf0709]

Yes me too Jellybean! I hope you can relax tonight and have a nice cosy evening to bring back the positive vibes.

I'm 9dpo and have very few symptoms. I had a dull ache earlier today on the right side of my pelvic area but was gone after half an hour. I had a stark white hpt this morning but as I'm not trying to ss too much, I threw it away and try again tomorrow morning. I feel better not focusing like a mad woman on every single twinge or pull.

How is everyone else doing, where are you in your cycles?x

I’m 9DPO too Kitana. Fx for us both I’ve also had minimal symptoms although I’ve had quite a lot of creamy CM, gas and spots around my chin x

 

[EmmaN27]

CD12 and my temp has jumped massively from 36.11 to 36.45, if it wasn’t for negative OPKs I would have thought ov happened! Bizarre! Will do OPKs more frequently now, as something similar to this happened last cycle just before ov. Early ov would be nice this cycle! X