Nhs treated me so badly ,didnt care where my baby was terminated

rossyrozela

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HIYA EVERYONE I DONT MEAN TO SCARE ANYONE BUT LIKE I HAD SAID EARLIER ON,MY 20 WEEKS SCAN SHOWED THAT MY BABY HAD ABNORMALITIES,THE STRANGE THING IS THAT AT 12 WEEKS THE SACN SHOWED THAT BOTH HANDSS AND LEGS WERE PRESENT AND THEY WERE NORMAL THEN THE 20 WEEKS SCAN SHOWED THAT ONE HAND WAS MISSING HOW CONTRADICTING AND ALSO MY DON SYNDROME TEST CAME AS LOW RISK.

nOW AFTER SPEAKING TO MY CONSULTANT THEY TOLD ME THAT THEY ADVIVE THAT I GO FOR TERMINATION BECAUSE THERE ARE JUST SO MANY THINGS WRONG WITH THE BABAY.TH E SADEST PART WAS THAT MY CONSULTANT TOLD ME TO CONTACT MARISTOPES AND IASKED FOR THEIR NUMBER AND SHE TOLD ME TO CHECK ONLINE.SO I WENT ONLINE AND DID JUST THAT AND AN APPOINTMENT WAS MADE FOR ME TO HAVE THE TERMINATION TODAY.SO I WAS THERE AT 8.20AM AND THEY WERE STILL ASKING ME WHY MY CONSULTANT DID NOT REFER ME AND WHY THEY DID NOT SEND MY SCAN RESULT TO THEMBUT TO CUT THE LONG STORY SHORT THE TERMINATION PROCESS WAS THE WORST EXPERIANC E OF MY LIFE.AFTER INSERING THE TABLET TO DILATE MY CERVIX AND I WAS IN SO MUCH PAIN,I WAS NOT GIVEN OR OFFERED ANY PAIN RELIEF,I WAS SCREAMING WITH PAIN TO APOINT WHERE BY I TOLD THEM IAM GOING TO CALL FOR AMBULANCE AND GO IN FOR AN EMERGENCY.THE PAIN WAS SO UNBEARABLE THEN THAT IS THE TIME THEY PAID ME SOME ATTENTION AND ASKED TO GO TO THE THEATRE,I WAS IN AGONY FOR 4 HOURS WITHOUT ANY PAINKILLER,THEY KEPT ON SAYING WE ARE GOING TO GIVE ITT TO YOU BUT THEY CONTINUED ATTENDING TO OTHER PATIENS.

MY ADVICE TO GIRLS OUT THERE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO HAVE ABBY PLEASE USE CONTACEPTIVES AND DONT GO FOR N ABORTION UNLESS IT IS DUE TO ABNORMALITIES,THERE WERE SO MANY YOUNG GIRLS THERE AND I WONDERED WHY THEY WRE PUTTING THEMSELVES THROUGH THAT PAIN.

I WAS NOT OFFERED COUNSELLING ASWELL I WAS JUST LEFT ON MY OWN.
HOPE SOMEONE LEARNS FROM MY EXPERIANCE
 
That's terrible, I think you aught to make a complaint I'm so sorry you had to go through this x
 

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